Olufe one 5

MEN STOP DATING A LIABILITY!

1. A girl who doesn't have transport
fare to visit someone that she claims
she love. (liability)

2. A lady who can't get you birthday or
valentine gift but expect you to bring
down the world for her during hers.
(liability)

3. Someone who can't comfortably call
you on the phone for 5 minutes.
Always flashing, complaining and
requesting for data and airtime...(liability)

4. I wonder how some Men cope with ladies
that think a relationship is an occupation
where she's supposed to be paid and taken
care of??
(S*x is not a benefit to only men, such a girl is a (liability).

5. Stop dating a liability no matter how
beautiful she is.
Beauty is a bonus, focus on her content!
Date a lady who can add something meaningful
to your life.
Things like: financial intelligence, emotional intelligence, spiritual intelligence.

6. Date someone who's capable of managing
multiplying whatever she has and the ones
you give to her, your soul will be at peace!
Not someone that will always be at the receiving end.

7. I'm not saying she must be rich.
But let her have something doing no matter
how little it is because no matter how much
money you make, she must
be able to assist you during the rainy days...

Two good heads are better than one. Guy's am I speaking your mind?🙄

𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐓 𝐀𝐋𝐋 𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐂𝐇𝐄𝐌𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐑𝐘 𝐁𝐔𝐓 𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐃𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐘

🔴Chemistry is a feeling or attraction towards someone and it’s stimulated by innermost chemical reactions within oneself as a result of physical appearance or character display of the other person.

🔴Anytime we meet someone that is fit into the image of the kind of partner we desired, a chemical reaction is stimulated, therefore creating attractions between the persons.

🔴Those chemical reaction will somehow short down ones senses or a part of their brain from reasoning normally, therefore causing them to behave in an abnormal way, which we called love.

🔴This is the reason why some people get madly in love and can’t be separated. This happens in new relationships. No matter what you do, you can’t stop that kind of relationship. Some will even have problem with anyone that try to get in between them, even their parents.

🔴Those chemicals are about 70% to 80% in an early stage of a relationship but reduces with time, to about 25% to 20% or less. This is where many relationships end because their senses will be reactivated and their brain will come alive. Then the light of reality is turned on. 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓'𝐒 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐑𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐃 “𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐈𝐒 𝐁𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐃” 𝐂𝐀𝐌𝐄 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌.

🔴Understand you cannot control this chemical reactions. They are naturally created by God. But you can control them through the quality of information you allow into your mind. The information you have about love will determine your chemistry. If your standards for a partner are wrong, the chemical will react base on false equation, therefore creating a false love.

🔴Have the right orientation about love from God’s word.

🔴Marriage is all about destiny, and not chemistry.

🔴Chemistry will fade away with time but destiny will last forever.

🔴Destiny is simply a destination and marriage is a journey.

🔴There’s no need for marriage If there’s no specified destination.

🔴As a lady

MARRY A MAN WITH COMMON SENSE.

1: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you.

2: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour.

3: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you.

4: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to s*x at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood.

5: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag b***s and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16,

Your sag b***s or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.)

6: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.

7: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions.

8: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry"

9: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity.

10: Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you. May you not miss it in marriage..

FOLLOW Relationship Trips

What are some deep truth you must learn now or never?

1.One day you will die and the rest of the world will move on without you.
2.Nobody is coming to save you, so start putting in the work.
3.Talk doesn't cook rice, so overthinking wouldn't miraculously create you any magic.
4.Money buys you freedom and happiness, not joy.
5.You can't escape all life’s challenges in your lifetime.
6.You won't be young forever, break bones when you still have teeth.
7.You can't know everything.