AMORe

Hello everyone! When October started the Fall season began and the beginning of all the holiday seasons. Halloween yesterday brought back so many memories: dressing up my kids (their costumes were all handmade or put together from what we had at home), taking them out trick-or-treating, handing out candy, and seeing the costumes of the other kids.
I was excited about Halloween. I love to decorate and hand out candy. The kids and grandkids are grown except for one. I was sad last night, though, because we only had 2 kids come by. My son, Matthew, loved Halloween. He loved the spearmint Lifesavers mints. Every year we give out “Matthew’s” mints in honor of him. The years have changed and life has changed.
Without our children, nothing will ever be the same.
We can always keep their memory alive by doing something as simple as handing out their favorite candy on Halloween or even set up a trunk-or-treat.
We did special things when they were here. We can continue to do so for other children to make them happy. That’s what our kids would do if they were alive and with us.
I hope you reflect on the holidays and do something special to honor your child. I’ll touch base again. Please feel free to comment. Take care.

Thanksgiving is almost over but I wanted to say that I hope everyone was able to enjoy Thanksgiving with family and friends. When we have to spend a holiday or special day without our child or children it can be difficult. Just know that you are loved and have support if the time is difficult for you. Our loved ones that are not physically with us are with us still. We just can’t feel them. Close your eyes and give yourself a hug, picture your child with his or hers arms around you. They are there.
I’m thankful for the memories I have of Matthew and the Thanksgivings we had together. I’m thankful for my friends and family that have always and still are with me when I need them. I’m thankful for God never giving up on me and always be there.
What are you thankful for? Say your child’s name. Sending hugs. (((❤️)))

This year seems to be going by quickly. I can’t believe it’s March already. Soon it will be Spring, a time of new beginnings and new growth. It can be very hard to see the beauty and joy when you are grieving. It is possible in time. Take that first step by smiling at someone or look in the mirror and smile at yourself, even if you don’t feel like it. Take a walk outside and enjoy the Spring weather and soak up the sun rays. Be patient with yourself. You are not alone. If you need to reach out, please do so. I’m here for you, too.

Our in person monthly meeting of AMORe is the second Sunday of the month at 3:00 in Woodbridge, Va. If you would be interested in attending our support group or have questions please contact me through this group and I will connect with you.
Just remember you have someone who cares and understands. Blessings to all. ❤️