We are a q***r space first, and that means we support those who support q***rs coming to our events. For a definition of 'ally' please see the following ‘don't be an as**at’ clause, or google. So what does that mean? Who is welcome in our space? Do you have to present your 'q***r credentials' to get in the door? The short answer is that everyone is welcome and we're pretty freakin' q***r but none
of us have been given any credentials so, no we don't card for that. More specifically though, for us, it's about attitude not anatomy. We don't care what parts you have or what part you play with, we just care that you aren't an as**at. Also, there is no text book definition of q***r which we think is the definition of q***r.....q***rs are a self-identified, "don't put me in your box" group of humans so we at HotHouse think that it's only fair of us to afford others the same flexibility. The q***rs of HotHouse are friendly, welcoming and inviting folks who just want all you awesome perverts to have a good time doing terrible and wonderful things to each other in an open and positive environment. That said, we are a q***r party so… do you belong here? We can't answer that for you, but we can tell you that we will welcome you in to our space….
*if you want to be there and can respect the ‘don't be an as**at’ clause.
*if you are someone who feels 'othered' by "women and trans only" q***r parties, know that we don't have gender policies and you are welcome at our events. And if you're still not sure, contact us or someone who has attended in the past and find out if we're your party. Chances are, if you're awesome and think you belong in q***r positive space, we want you there. So who isn't welcome? mean people, people who judge other people...... That's pretty much it AND we thank you in advance for your self-awareness if you decide that you don't feel right being in q***r space! There's lots of groups/parties/events/munches out there and we hope you find the one that fits best for you. We're really for getting your (fill in the blank) on! In closing, we do not discriminate based on sexuality, gender, presentation, status, race, lifestyle, size, fe**sh or lack of glitter (ok, maybe a little bit for the lack of glitter). We will, however, ask you to leave if you are harassing other guests, being disrespectful, being an as**at, or otherwise letting your hate flag fly.
12/08/2019
Two rad art/ craft events are this coming weekend! The Trans Craft Fair in Baltimore and Arty Qu**rs Holiday Edition in DC. (links in the comments) Maybe hit one or both of those before joining us at R House at 4:30 for a pre- HotHouse munch???
10/24/2019
SAVE THE DATE: DEC. 14TH is our next hot q***r party!
(more info soon!🦄)