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The Office of Mr. E. Edward Grey: Secretary 19 years later

Recently, I wrote about revisiting Fifty Shades of Grey more than a decade after it first exploded into popular culture. In writing that piece, I found myself thinking about another B**M movie entirely. One that came out years earlier and somehow never really left me. Secretary. I first watched Secretary nineteen years ago while sitting alone in the living room of a situationship's new house while he was out of town....

The Office of Mr. E. Edward Grey: Secretary 19 years later Recently, I wrote about revisiting Fifty Shades of Grey more than a decade after it first exploded into popular culture. In writing that piece, I found myself thinking about another B**M movie enti…

What We Keep Quiet: Internal Kink Shame

There are kinks I do not talk about here. Not because I am afraid of getting banned. Not because I think they are illegal. Not even because I think they are inherently wrong. I keep quiet about them because I still struggle with them inside myself. That is one of the things people do not talk about enough in kink communities: internal kink shame does not magically disappear just because you become experienced....

What We Keep Quiet: Internal Kink Shame There are kinks I do not talk about here. Not because I am afraid of getting banned. Not because I think they are illegal. Not even because I think they are inherently wrong. I keep quiet about the…