The Painted Doula

ity of life is to serve. The secret of life is to dare. The spice of life is to befriend. The beauty of life is to give." -Ritu Ghatourey

I first became interested in doula work when I befriended one of my hair salon clients, Kathleen Wilson, who owns Labor Enabler. She would talk to me about how she helps people to achieve the birth experiences that they wished for. Over the next 5 or so years I would tell her whenever I saw her that I wished I could do what she does for people. Finally, in the summer of 2012, she invited me to apprentice with her and then see how I felt after attending a few births with her. I have spent my time since then learning everything I can from Kathleen, and immersing myself in every book, article, workshop, and birthing experience. I have learned that birth is not a diagnosis with symptoms and treatments, but a physiological process that our bodies were made to perform. I have learned about women making informed decisions about their own births. I have learned that birth is not something that 'happens to you,' it is something that should be facilitated according to your wishes. I have learned that medical intervention is absolutely miraculous, but not always necessary or wanted. I have learned that when it is necessary or wanted it is often a God send. I have learned the power of compassion and empowerment.