Candace Jo

He told me I was paranoid.But he was having an affair with a mutual acquaintance for months. He would take awkward photos of me for his social media so she could make fun of me behind my back. I knew something was off the minute it started.

I figured out and we split after 15 years and two kids. The divorce is going to be final soon, I live in a smaller house and I cleared all my debts. I feel free now and I don't even care what they are doing.

I'm looking forward to my future adventures

Feta fried in sesame with honey and chilli.

My butt cheeks are currently waxed togetherSalmon and Brocolli pasta with wild garlic.

Not sure how to navigate this one. Just trying to have some peaceful self-care time, waxing my booty… you know, personal admin.

Doorbell rings. It’s the police.

And because I’m a law-abiding citizen, I panic, pull my trousers up, and sprint to the door.

Dear reader, the damage is done.

My cheeks are now… sealed for freshness.

Currently attempting squats like I’m training for the Olympics.

My EX boyfriend insulted my body, that bore and fed a child, so I physically escorted him out of my house and life.He tried negging me a couple times over the past few months, and I started watching him close after the first time.

This man was a DOCTOR OF PSYCHOLOGY, and has absolutely no self awareness. He was a terrible partner and used intermittent reinforcement and love bombing to try and force emotional attachment.

He moved to negging when that didn’t work.

I should have left him months ago, but I was interested to see where it would go.

And it wasn’t a failed experiment! I learned so many new RED FLAGS in men.

He was a real son of a bitch. Full of hubris and bu****it. And this man is 48! I watched him throw a temper tantrum one time! Just like my child!

I’ve been wondering when I would have enough and end it, and last night he hit my threshold.

I literally stood him up, made him put his shoes on at midnight, and shoved him out the door saying, “be gone, bad spirit!”

He told me to have a nice life, and I already do, so I told him if he came to my house again I’d call the cops.

These men are mother fu**in trippin.

And to people wanting details about what he said, go be messy elsewhere. I understand the curiosity, but it’s really not s**t I’m interested in sharing.

I’m very healthy, and it was total bu****it he spewed just to try and get me to value myself less and not leave him.

And he IS NOT the father of my child. That’s my ex husband, who I also had to throw out! Im 43, and I’ve had many relationships.