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Can We Get Addicted to Our Misery? - Core Living Essentials Question – Is it possible to be addicted to our misery? I have an aunt who is constantly talking about all of her illnesses and all of the hard things that are going on in her life. It seems like this is an addiction simply because she inflates her stories as time goes on. She […]

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How Do We Stop That Downward Spiral and Find Joy in The Journey? - Core Living Essentials Do you ever wonder how you’re supposed to find joy through trials? Life has its ups and downs, but sometimes challenging events occur all at once. It feels like our world is turned upside down, and we know something is missing. Our challenges take the form of health problems, losses, breakups, nat...

In today's article we had another client question:
Question- This same comment came from both the husband and wife- “He or she just doesn’t seem to care; there is not enough tenderness or support and there is no connection- just loneliness.”

Answer- There are probably a lot of couples feeling the same way. Why is that? Why would two people in the same relationship feel that same loss? Is there a solution for both of them? This problem presents two main principles. The first is our expectations in a relationship and the second is self-deception. Both of these principles are based in fear of not being good enough and fear of loss. How hard is it to show love to others when you feel empty too? To find a solution to that last question, let’s look at each principle separately.

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This is My Marriage Not Yours - Core Living Essentials This is My Marriage Not Yours Question- This same comment came from both the husband and wife- “He or she just doesn’t seem to care; there is not enough tenderness or support and there is no connection- just loneliness.” Answer- There are probably a lot of couples feeling the same way. Why is ...

Divorce is devastating to all parties involved, even when it needs to happen. For children it can be an especially sad, stressful and a very confusing time and can have a terrible fear of loss and failure. They may feel shocked, uncertain, or angry or even feel guilty, blaming themselves for the problems at home. Such a transitional time doesn’t happen without some measure of grief and hardship. Also, keep in mind that children from divorced parents tend to also lean toward future failed marriages.
Before choosing divorce or separation, get some counseling. A greater sense of peace endures in a home if things can be worked out. After counseling, if you still feel the need to go separate ways, continue living the principles you learned in counseling. This will help you have a better and stronger relationships in the future.
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Divorce and Our Kids - Core Living Essentials At times divorce needs to happen. Yet it is still stressful for the Kids. Here are some ideas that can help children survive and thrive.