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➡️Constantly refusing to be held accountable as a narcissistic trait, and it will be accompanied by emotional abuse.

‼️The only way to avoid accountability is to be deceptive.

➡️Manipulation and gaslighting is a form of deception and it is emotionally abusive because it negatively impacts your emotion and your thoughts.

❤️‍🩹It causes you to doubt yourself and your reality… That is abusive.

if you think that you are in a destructive relationship, ➡️Tap Follow ⭐️to learn more about the patterns to watch out for.

This is how to know if someone is really sorry and taking responsibility…

💔It’s important to recognize that destructive people will say they are sorry in order to avoid the consequences of their choices.

If we don’t recognize when an apology is fake, it will create a cycle of harm.

The Bible teaches that reconciliation is not possible with someone who sorry for what they did.

This is what you need to look for…

➡️First, they need to actually apologize without justifying minimizing or deflecting.

➡️Second, they need to have the capacity to listen to you talk about the impact it had on you. Someone who isn’t truly sorry will not be willing to hear how it hurt you.

➡️Third, they will have an actual plan to repair the damage they did. Someone who is truly sorry will willingly repair the relationship.

➡️Fourth and final, you will see a consistent change over time.

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