The Authentic Glow
07/20/2026
For centuries, her name has been attached to one of the most important institutions in the world.
But the closer you look, the harder she is to find.
Was Fatima al-Fihri erased from history—or created by it?
Tuesday: The Woman the Walls Remembered.
I don’t think I’ve ever fought an essay this hard.
A week. More than a dozen rewrites. Editing after it was already published. Late nights asking the same question over and over:
How do you write honestly when history refuses to give you certainty?
Instead, I found myself asking something much bigger:
do we reconstruct the intellectual life of a marriage from a handful of letters and surviving documents?
Maybe we’ll never know.
But I do know this:
History deserves better than certainty where certainty doesn’t exist.
And people deserve better than becoming caricatures, whether they’re remembered as flawless geniuses or forgotten footnotes.
This essay challenged me more than anything I’ve written in a long time.
I hope it challenges you too.
🪨 “One Stone” is now on Substack.
Albert and Mileva both wrote about “our work.”
One paper they privately described as shared was published under his name alone.
We may never know exactly how much she contributed to Einstein’s early physics—but the uncertainty itself tells us something about whose work history was built to preserve.
Mileva Marić: One Stone is now on Substack. 🪨
07/15/2026
We know Albert Einstein.
But before there was a Nobel Prize… before relativity… before history crowned a solitary genius… there was a young physicist named Mileva Marić.
This isn’t an essay about proving who discovered relativity.
It’s about partnership, authorship, and what happens when two people call it “our work,” but history only remembers one signature.
📖 This week’s Tuesday Drop: Mileva Marić: One Stone
At fifty years old, Laskarina Bouboulina did not simply join the Greek Revolution.
She arrived with her own fleet.
Twice widowed, she took control of her family’s shipping fortune, built the eighteen-cannon warship Agamemnon, paid sailors from her own pocket, and spent nearly everything she had fighting for Greek independence.
History loves a rebellious young woman.
It is much less prepared for a wealthy middle-aged widow with cannons.
07/13/2026
Quiz: which beloved genius wrote his wife a numbered list of conditions — three meals to his room, silence on demand, no affection expected?
Hint: she passed the same physics coursework he did.
Answer Tuesday. Receipts, as always.
She helped fight an empire out of South America.
Then the countries she helped liberate nearly forgot her.
Juana Azurduy organized troops, led cavalry, captured a Spanish battle flag, and earned the rank of lieutenant colonel during the wars for independence.
General Manuel Belgrano was so impressed he gave her his own sword.
She lost her husband, several of her children, her land, and nearly everything to the revolution.
When she died in 1862, she was buried in a common grave.
Only later did Argentina and Bolivia recognize the military leader she had always been.
History has a habit of remembering the revolutions.
It often forgets the women who won them.
Follow for more buried women’s history. 💛
07/10/2026
A man went viral for telling a woman that a second date needed to include s*x so he could determine whether they were “s*xually compatible.”
Around the same time, WIRED reported that wealthy men are paying up to $100,000 to find wives who meet precise requirements: younger, traditional, family-oriented, Christian, attractive, but not too career-focused.
Different men. Same logic.
One writes a requirements document.
The other runs an early performance test.
Both are trying to use a small amount of controlled data to predict a relationship that does not exist yet.
We’ve confused early compliance with long-term compatibility.
New essay: The $49,000 Wife.
Link in bio.
Hollywood wanted Anna May Wong’s face.
But not her power.
Born in Los Angeles in 1905, she became one of the first Chinese American movie stars…glamorous, magnetic, and impossible to ignore.
But Hollywood kept offering her stereotypes while white actresses were cast in Asian roles. When The Good Earth was adapted, Anna May Wong was passed over for the lead role in a story about Chinese farmers.
So she refused the smaller, stereotyped part.
Because visibility is not enough when the industry wants your image but not your dignity.
Hollywood made her exotic.
Made her tragic.
Made her secondary.
But it could not make her forgettable.
Follow for more buried women’s history.💛
Where were all the women in science?
They were there.
The better question is: who was allowed to sign the record?
This week’s Tuesday Drop looks at the laws, academies, journals, and institutions that kept women’s names off the work they helped build.
Who Was Permitted to Sign? is live now.
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