YOUNG CLASS Events

AITA for mentioning that I had a chronic toothache while my wife was in labor?

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AITA saying I will not spend Father's Day with my stepfather instead of my dad?

My parents divorced 10 years ago. My mom got remarried 8 years ago. For the last 3 years I (17M) have lived with my dad and I spend one weekend a month at my mom's house. Before that it was 50/50. But regardless of the custody split I always spent Mother's Day with my mom and Father's Day with my dad. That didn't change just because she got remarried. But this year my mom is planning a special day out of my stepfather and he wants me to spend Father's Day with him/them, which includes my four half siblings. I said no. My stepfather told me I always spend Father's Day with my dad and I live with him now, and hardly ever see him and my mom, and this is a big year because it's the first year with our "completed family" and the last one before I'm finished high school and I should invest in time with my family but especially him, because I never let him in as a second dad and always treat him like he's just my mom's husband.

He went on and on about how much he wants to connect with me and to feel like I appreciate him as a fatherly presence in my life. He told me the day would be fun too so it's not like he's dragging me fishing or to sit watching paint dry. He told me I could easily celebrate both of them, just on different days, and my dad's plans are always easier to do another day but this special day out relies on certain Father's Day activities. I kept saying no. I didn't reconsider at any point.

My mom asked me to do it for just this one year. She told me it meant...

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AITA for attending my ex's wedding?

I dont know if I am in the wrong or I am being gaslit. I (36F) attended my ex's (37m) wedding this weekend and I apparently failed a test.

My ex, Adam, and I dated in highschool, from the time we were 15 - 18, when we amicably split up to go to college in different states. Since college, we've kept in 'facebook familiar' contact, where we'd wish each other happy birthday, or congratulate each other on big milestones, but have had no other contact in the 20 or so years since then. About a year ago, I saw his engagement post on his facebook and congratulated him. A few months ago he facebook messaged me, asked how I was doing, and said he wanted to have a bit of a highschool get-together at his wedding since he was holding it in our hometown. He was inviting most of our mutual friend circle and he'd love for me to attend too. I hadnt seen most of these friends in over a decade, and I thought the idea sounded fun so I accepted the invitation.

The wedding was this past weekend....and it was incredibly normal. I attended with my husband, he got to meet all of my highschool friends and their partners and we had a great time.

Sunday morning I wake up to a slew of facebook messages from my ex's new wife about my audacity to attend the wedding and how out of all his former girlfriends, I was the only one who failed the test. She said that CLEARLY you shouldnt attend an ex's wedding unless youre still hung up on them and how I must be planning to steal her new husband away. I was shocked, but also apologized if I had been unwelcomed...