Hi, I'm Matthew Hoelscher, founder of the Parentmarriage.com the most successful coach for transforming marriages in crisis into happiness. My revolutionary approach of coaching couples into creating a positive, goal oriented future together is the secret to my 90% success rate compared to traditional marriage counseling with a 75% failure rate. We are not going to dig into your past, dredge up ol
d problems or preach outdated advice about doing hard work, sacrificing, or putting others before yourself. Coach can be by phone or held in a private location is going to give you the tools to find your inner happiness, stop the give and take, and empower both of your share the gifts you already have. The first session will shift the momentum of your marriage to draw you both closer together and restore intimacy between you. I specifically help with:
Broken Trust
Arguing
Threat of Divorce
No Affection
Discipline of Children
No S*x
Addictive Behaviors
Midlife Crisis
Money
Emotional Affairs
Infidelity
Boredom
Lack of Appreciation
Emotional Neglect
My wife and I were deeply in love. We stayed up late talking about our dreams and goals in life. We went scuba diving almost every week sharing adventures under the sea in beautiful South Florida. I would come home from work and my wife would make a picada (meat & Cheese appetizer) for me before dinner. You know the feeling of being really connected? Then my wife became pregnant with twins. She was high risk and it became a very difficult 9 months of pregnancy. We were both totally focused and committed to delivering healthy babies. Once they came home, I felt so relieved! I thought it was over, but the problems had just begun! The drastic change in lifestyle, stress, lack of sleep, and loss of focus really took a turn on us. After two years, we started throwing out the dreaded "D" word. I felt like a pilot in an airplane where suddenly all the air was gone! The plane, (my marriage) was falling out of the sky even though all the guages said nothing was wrong. Your situation was probably not so dramatic, but something happened? How did you lose each other? Or maybe like me, you just couldn't put your finger on it? That's common too. One night we both decided that we wanted to stay together. We made a commitment to figure this out. I read over 500 books in 7 years. I graduated from the professional coaching program at the University of Miami. After another 3 years we figured out our core problems, she wanted more money and I wanted more s*x. Neither one of us could change that overnight. Then we had a breakthrough (not knowing it at that time). So instead of continually fighting about the same thing over and over again, we both dropped it. We forgot about our problems. We started to focus our time and energy into connecting with each other. By establishing new relationship habits we brought new, positive energy to our marriage. These habits are exactly what I will coach you on during our sessions. How to change destructive patterns of behavior
How to stop dwelling on the past
How to restore broken trust
How to deal with a spouse who "checked-out"
The 5 T's to rebuild that loving feeling
Advanced s*xuality
How to survive and thrive after an affair
How to become a team rather than 2 individuals
How to keep small things small
How to replace efficiency with intimacy
How to leverage desire, romance, and attachment in the brain
Asking for what you want
How to argue amicably
Romantic texting
Harness the power of fantasy
Multiple or**sm for him and her
How to make marriage a spiritual practice
Create a shared vision for the future
Conquer the dark demons of fear and jealousy
Feel and share unconditional love
It would have been nice to know how to do all this years ago, right? Well, it's NOT too late. In my experience, it's never too late. The bottom line is this: if you're willing to learn new ways of relating to your spouse and if you're willing to apply what you learn to your situation, then Parent Marriage based coaching will work for you! Click "Book Now" to reserve your time!
