Deep Blue Coach

There is a notion of balance that says everything is easy, even and equitable. Have you found that yet? Or, do you know anyone who has???

Nature usually has a good perspective.

Poets Walk in Central Park through the seasons is a great reference. Across a year, it presents and prepares itself for what the day brings. That means, incremental adjustments that flow into a orchestration. Within each season, it gives different elements more or less weight. If the sun is out, the blossoms and leaves can thrive. If the wind and snow are out, it leaves its branches bare to stand strong, and give the new time to grow.

If you’re stronger on the right side, focus your weightier elements there, and let your left side comfortably carry the lighter stuff. That’s balance. Not forcing things. Letting things emerge naturally to its own rhythm.

Balance means moving with grace. And extending that grace to yourself when something has to shift so you can move comfortably.

Embracing cooler temps, warmer colors and new ways in for whatever you’re facing.

This season, we’ll explore one topic, a variety of ways. Fewer words, and more space for you and your truth.

Well, to be fair, we’re talking about change, so expectations need to be a bit fluid. Such is the nature of change 🤷🏾‍♀️

But there is such a powerful truth in that beautifully written sentence. Change is inevitable. You can’t control it. Sometimes the change is exactly what you want to see, sometimes it goes a completely different way — and that can be both good and bad. But if it’s different, you got what you wanted: change.

There is no way to control anything. It’s more about acceptance and adapting. You can and should build a plan. And you can and should act on it. And you can and should stay open to what it shows you, even when it looks nothing like you wanted. Change happened. Let the change be what it is, and take what you can from it. The more open you can be, the more likely it will match or lead you to what you wanted in the first place. But that is change+

Change is change. If you’re looking for more out of it than that, you have to look at what you’re doing to shape it into what you want, and how committed you are to making it real.

Change can happen in an instant. And it happens all the time. Getting what you want? Now that takes time, patience and commitment. Roll with the changes; it usually makes getting what you want feel a lot easier and way more fun.