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I am coming to you from New York City this week, where I am attending a retreat surrounded by an incredible group of women business owners and leaders.
It reminded me that while it is commonly said, “It’s lonely at the top,” leadership was never meant to be carried in isolation.
In this short video, I share why senior women leaders need more than a network to lead well and how you can join me on June 10 at 12 PM ET for my complimentary Strategic Briefing:The Hidden Cost of Leading Without Enough Support and Ways to Move Forward

The link to register is in the comments section.

I am at a retreat this week in NYC, surrounded by a group of women business owners. What a blessing to have what I would call strategic support.
Not just people in the room.
Not just casual conversations.
Not just another networking moment.
But people who listen deeply, ask better questions, challenge my thinking, help me see what I may have missed, and remind me that leadership was never meant to be carried in isolation.
Have you heard the phrase, “It’s lonely at the top”?
For many senior women leaders, it is not lonely because they do not know people.
They often have strong networks.
They are respected.
They are visible.
They are the ones others depend on.
But they may still lack the kind of strategic support that helps them think through complex decisions, navigate stakeholder pressure, protect their capacity, and lead with clarity.
That is why networking and strategic support are not the same.
Networking introduces you to people.
Strategic support gives you people you can think with.
Networking expands visibility.
Strategic support strengthens clarity.
Networking creates connections.
Strategic support helps you make better decisions.
So how do you begin identifying your strategic support?
Look for people who can:
• Ask questions that sharpen your thinking
• Challenge your blind spots with honesty and care
• Help you protect your boundaries and capacity
• Understand the level of responsibility you are carrying
• Stand with you without competing with you
Because if you are always the anchor for everyone else, you need people who help anchor you too.
Do you have a network, or do you have strategic support you can truly rely on?
Find your people.

Have you been told you just need to be more resilient?
More resilience to handle the pressure.
More resilience to manage the demands.
More resilience to keep showing up, even when the weight keeps increasing.
But for many senior women leaders, resilience is not the problem.
You are already resilient.
You are already capable.
You are already leading through complexity with steadiness, wisdom, and strength.
The real issue may be what I call the more resilience trap.
It happens when leaders are encouraged to keep digging deeper instead of asking what needs to change around the way they are leading.
More decisions.
More stakeholder expectations.
More complexity.
More people depending on you.
And yet, you may still be operating without the boundaries, systems, and trusted support squad needed to carry leadership at this level.
That is when strong leaders can find themselves over-functioning, absorbing too much, and trying to solve a structural gap with personal endurance.
Senior women leaders do not need another message telling them to simply be stronger.
They need stronger boundaries around their time, energy, and decision-making.
They need a trusted support squad they can rely on to think strategically, navigate complexity, and stay grounded when leadership gets heavy.
And they need to identify what has changed, what is no longer sustainable, and what must be put in place to lead at this level with clarity, capacity, influence, and sustainable results.
Have you ever felt like you were being asked to be more resilient when what you really needed was stronger boundaries and the right people around you?
Share your perspective in the comments below.