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A common misconception regarding alcoholism is the belief that if you can temporarily quit or give up drinking, you don’t have a problem.

Licensed clinical social worker Kelley Kitley debunks this myth, explaining that the true indicator of alcoholism is what happens once you actually start drinking and find it difficult to stop. Many individuals successfully participate in sobriety trends like Dry January or give up alcohol for the 40 days of Lent, using these periods as proof of control. However, once those challenges end and they pick up a drink again, they often fall right back into the same problematic patterns.

Drawing on over 20 years of expertise and her own recovery journey, Kelley reminds us that short-term abstinence alone does not rule out problem drinking if moderation remains impossible once you resume.

Maggie Eats reveals the exhausting lengths she went to while hiding her substance use disorder from her family. Now celebrating over three years of continuous sobriety, Maggie’s story is a powerful reminder that true healing begins when we finally trade secrecy for radical honesty.

Driven by absolute desperation, Maggie ( ) reached her breaking point and confessed her secret to her husband, handing over every hidden bottle in the house. Realizing she couldn't control the active dependency on her own, she finally agreed to take the first step toward treatment. Her powerful story illustrates the intense, agonizing cycle of high-functioning alcoholism and the critical crossroad where surrender leads to healing.

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Gray area drinking affect millions who wonder, "Am I an alcoholic?" because they don't fit the extreme stereotypes of losing a job or getting a DUI. In our newest episode of RECOVERable with host Terry McGuire, licensed clinical social worker Kelley Kitley explains that problem drinking is less about reaching rock bottom and more about when alcohol becomes a disruption to daily living.

It can be incredibly difficult to recognize these internal warning signs on your own, especially since alcohol use is so deeply normalized in our culture. Furthermore, we often surround ourselves with social circles that mirror our own habits, making it easy to overlook a growing dependency. Drawing from her personal recovery story and over 20 years of professional expertise, Kelley breaks down how to navigate these subtle social dynamics and recognize the signs of a problematic relationship with alcohol.