Make it Bettter

ms, abnormal, and the only thing left you trust and love, is you, yourself. Because we're human beings, we're tough, we're smart and we're resourceful, but our greatest strength lies deep within us, it's the common thread that binds us all together, and thats our ability to overcome. It's just what we do, it's what we're made of, and no matter what the challenge is, no matter how difficult or dangerous, once a human being sets it's mind to it, there's nothing it can't do. So that's our advantage, that's how we beat life, that how we know everythings going to be ok, because the one thing that each of us has access to here on Earth, is us, our own human selves, that along with a healthy mind, and a never give up attitude, there's nothing you can't overcome. All things are possible, all possibilities attainable, as long as you're there, telling yourself to not give up, you will achieve. The only thing that can get in your way, is you. We are our worst enemy, we control our outcomes and the moment we choose to accept defeat, we lose. This is why it's so important to have a sound, healthy mind set. A set of coping skills to remind ourselves the dos and donts of me, an ongoing set of instructions that I can depend on, to result in acceptable solutions that I can live with. The idea is to live a healthy, full and satisfying life without regret. And because, we make the call, we are govenors over our human nature, we can guarantee ourselves these healthy happy outcomes, that each one of us want for our very own lives. And yes this is a simplified version, and yes it may sound to good to be true, but the bottom line is the territory beneath my skin is under my jurisdiction, if I feel like drinking this gallon of gasoline, it's none of your business, I make the call for me. As long as my pursuit of happiness, does not interfere with yours, my life is free. When our pursuits cross or impede on one anothers, as long as I'm reasonable, fair, and responsible for me, I can live with me. Solutions to my problems are under my control, my problems are unique to me, they are my own. Without me, if I do not exist, my problems do not exist, it takes me, to exist, in order for my problems to exist. I can either hate my vegetables, or love them, it's a choice, my problems are my choice, I also choose the degree of bother I'm going to allow each problem to disturb me. So blaming someone else for my emotional disturbance is not possible, because I make me mad, no one else is capable. I control me, I have to grant permission in order to allow someone else, besides me, to control my emotional state of mind. This type of healthy happy mindset is achieved through the rigors of trial and error, accepting the things I can not change, and changing the things I can. Undeniable facts that speak truth to my sound mental health. These and a handful of other personalized mantras that each one of us have developed through the years, will continue to govern us, so learning and understanding simple truths become undeniable fact that will govern important choice making changes, expanding our preceptions into accepting new, more full and better developed understandings that in the end, we can leave with, we can be proud of, and we can share with our loved ones so that they too can find and develop these uniquely developed recipes for their own internal happiness and Long sought commitment to a more effective, updated, personalized set of values that will change your life into something you never dreamed possible. So you can reach out to me via email for some personal one-on-one or share it with everyone and we'll develop our own response, support group. I love hearing from my readers, so don’t be shy, we won't judge, we'll just search out solutions. We're all works in progress, all first timers here on Earth, so reach out without hesitation, and share your thoughts so we can brainstorm together. We'll come up with more than one solution, something you can live with and apply right away. You'll see if it's something you it can work with, and if you can't, we'll "make it better", and try it again because you're worth it right? Life is what you make of it, and bottom line, whatever you choose to make out of it, it was your choice, so if you don't like the outcome, and you feel like changing your choice, adding or subtracting because you didn't figure in certain situations, that's okay. That's better than okay, constantly adapting, readying ourselves for inevitable change, because no solution lasts forever, solutions change and apapt over the span of their life, from the day they were born, no answer lasts forever, but the best answers come from the best creators, understanding their temporary nature, and readying themselves in anticipation of their solution's imminent failure. The Creator and the solution are in it together, the solution isonly as effective as the audience it applies. So patience, understanding, forethought, all new qualities we have to develop, ok n order to become the Masters of our own satisfied and fulfilling lives. Our creation of solutions, can erase those solutions just easily, as long as we have a backup plan. You can change your mind at any time. Its up to you, we've all been taught ways that are old and outdated, that used to work for our parents, but now a days are just not as effective so we've got to find what works for us. Like the Three Little Pigs, as soon as one house blew down, they adapted, no problem, move to my brother's house, upgrade, new solution, no reason to panic, or get mad, in hindsite the ty could have made a better choice. The biggy is, I learned from that mistake, I want to be able to see it coming in the future, I don't want ty o make that same mistake again, that's what matters, that the important stuff right?! email me at [email protected]