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Twenty-year-old me thought fitness was mostly about intensity.

More miles.
More weight.
More sweat.
More exhaustion.

If I was not leaving the gym completely drained, I did not feel like I had done enough.

At that stage of life, that made some sense.

I had more flexibility.
More margin.
Fewer people depending on me.

But life looks different now.

I have gone from single to married with two kids.
I was an individual contributor at work and now the business has 3 employees.
The number of people depending on my energy, clarity, and consistency keeps growing.

And that has changed the way I think about fitness.

I still train hard.

But I care a lot more about structure now.

Sleep.
Nutrition.
Walking.
Recovery.
Consistency.
Training with a purpose.

I am less interested in proving how hard I can push for one workout.

I am more interested in building a body and mind that can hold up for the next sixty years.

That shift has shown up in business too.

Early on, growth can feel like intensity.

More meetings.
More hours.
More ideas.
More urgency.
More everything.

And some of that is necessary.

But over time, intensity without structure starts to break things.

You need systems.
You need recovery.
You need the right people around you.
You need a clear reason for what you are building.
You need to know when effort is productive and when it is just noise.

Fitness, business, and financial planning all have this in common:

Doing more is rarely the right answer.

The better question is what is the one thing I should be focused on in this season?

Because the goal is not to be exhausted all the time.

The goal is to be strong enough, clear enough, and steady enough to keep showing up for the things that matter.

*This content is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized investment advice. Investment decisions should be made based on an individual's objectives, risk tolerance, and financial circumstances.

There is one investment question I get asked more than almost any other:

“Should I have some alternative investments in my portfolio?”

Private equity.
Private credit.
Private real estate.
Hedge funds.
Interval funds.
Structured notes.

The list keeps growing.

And I understand the appeal.

The traditional stock and bond portfolio can feel boring.

Alternatives sound more sophisticated.
They sound more exclusive.
They sound like the place wealthy families are supposed to be investing.

And in some cases, they can play a useful role.

But the first questions I ask are usually pretty simple:

How much does it cost?

And how do I get my money back?

That may sound basic, but it is where a lot of alternative investments start to break down.

The pitch usually focuses on the attractive parts:

Private markets.
Lower volatility.
Higher income.
Less correlation to the stock market.
Access to opportunities most investors do not have.

Sometimes those benefits are real.

But many alternatives sound better than they actually are once you understand the mechanics.

What are the upfront fees?
What are the ongoing expenses?
Is there a performance fee?
Is there a manager fee layered on top of another fund fee?
Is there a surrender charge?
Is there a redemption window?
Can the fund limit withdrawals?
How often can you actually get liquidity?
What happens if everyone wants out at the same time?

Those questions are not nearly as exciting as the pitch deck.

But they matter more.

Because an investment is not just a return number on a page.

It is a structure.

And the structure determines what happens when life changes.

You need cash for a business opportunity.
You want to help a child with a home purchase.
You are navigating a tax bill.
You are retiring earlier than expected.
You simply decide you no longer want the investment.

That is when the fine print stops being fine print.

For most successful families, the goal is not to own the most complicated portfolio possible.

The goal is to build a portfolio that can actually support the life they are trying to live.
Sometimes that includes alternatives.

Sometimes it does not.

But before you get excited about the story, make sure you understand the structure.

How much does it cost?

And how do I get my money back?

If those answers are vague, expensive, or overly complicated, that is usually telling you something.

*This content is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized investment advice. Investment decisions should be made based on an individual's objectives, risk tolerance, and financial circumstances.

Thursday, June 11th at 4:00 pm.

When a high-profile private company like SpaceX generates significant attention, many investors begin asking similar questions.

“What do you think about buying some SpaceX stock? I am hearing a lot of good things from friends and family.”

That is usually how these moments work.

The excitement does not arrive slowly.

It shows up all at once.

A company people already admire.
A story that feels obvious.
Friends and family talking about it.
A sense that “this might be the one.”

We love it when clients reach out to ask about an investment they are interested in.

SpaceX is an incredible company.

But a great company is not automatically a great investment.

Especially when everyone is already excited about it.

The hard part with hot IPOs is that by the time most public investors get access, a lot of the upside may already be priced in.

You are not just buying the company.

You are buying the company at a specific price, with a specific set of expectations already built in.

That changes the question.

The question is not:

“Do I think this company is impressive?”

The better question is:

“What has to go right from here for this investment to work?”

That is where planning matters.

When clients ask about something like this, our job is not to be reflexively negative or to kill the excitement.

Our job is to slow the decision down enough to look at both sides.

What is the upside case?
What is the downside risk?
How much could you lose without changing your life?
Is this a small position or is this becoming a meaningful bet?
Are you investing from conviction or from fear of missing out?

In situations like this, it's important to evaluate both the potential opportunities and the risks before making an investment decision.

We shared our concerns.
We talked through the risks.
We helped them understand what they were actually signing up for.

Because jumping on the bandwagon rarely feels reckless in the moment.

It usually feels logical.

Everyone is talking about it.
The company is exciting.
The story makes sense.

And I think the periods of heightened investor enthusiasm may just be getting started.

Highly anticipated private companies often attract significant investor interest.

Many investors are interested in owning innovative companies if they eventually become publicly available.

But the mechanics have to make sense.

Not when everything has to go perfectly right just for the company to grow into an already expensive valuation.

Investment decisions involve more than enthusiasm for a company. They also require considering valuation, risk tolerance, diversification, investment objectives, and how the investment fits within an overall financial plan.

*This content is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be construed as a recommendation to buy or sell any security. References to specific companies are for illustrative purposes only and do not constitute investment recommendations. All investments involve risk, including the possible loss of principal.

“I just separated from my company… and I’m trying to figure out what comes next.”

That is a situation many professionals face after separating from a company.

On the surface, the financial questions were technical.

Severance.
Company stock.
Options that needed to be exercised.
A large 401(k).
A daughter heading to college.
A possible new role with less income but more flexibility.
A growing interest in real estate.
And a tax bill that was hard to fully see yet.

Any one of those items would be manageable.

But all of them together?

That is where successful professionals start to feel the weight.

Not because they are financially irresponsible.

Usually the opposite.

This was someone who had worked since he was young.
Saved diligently.
Built a strong career.
Led a large team.
Carried a lot of responsibility for a long time.

But once the company transition happened, the question changed.

It was no longer just:

“How do I make more money?”

It became:

Can I retire at 55?
Should I take a lower-paying role with more flexibility?
What do I do with the stock and options?
How do I plan for the tax bill?
Should real estate be part of the next chapter?
How do I make sure I don’t make one expensive mistake?

That is the moment where financial planning becomes more than investments.
It becomes life design.

Because a career transition in your 40s or 50s is rarely just about replacing income.

It is a chance to ask a deeper question:

What do I want this next season to look like?

For a lot of high-performing professionals, that question is uncomfortable.

You have spent decades doing what needed to be done.

Providing.
Leading.
Executing.
Solving problems.

But then one day, the structure changes.

And suddenly the same skills that helped you succeed need to be redirected toward building a life you actually want to live.

Our role in that kind of situation is to bring coordination.

Investments.
Taxes.
Real estate.
Retirement timing.
College planning.
Cash flow.
Career decisions.

Not as separate conversations.

As one integrated plan.

Because financial independence is not just having enough money to stop working.

It is having enough clarity to decide what kind of life you want to build next.

That is where the real planning begins.

*This example is for illustrative purposes only and does not represent any specific client experience. It should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Individual circumstances vary.

Most people don’t actually know what they want.

They know what they were taught to want.

I’ve been digging into René Girard lately, and one of his core ideas is something called mimetic desire.

In simple terms:

We often learn what to want by watching what other people want.

The promotion.
The title.
The house.
The income level.
The second home.
The country club.
The early retirement number.

None of those things are bad.

But at some point, it’s worth asking:

Did I actually choose this?

Or did I inherit someone else’s definition of success?

I think this is one of the hardest questions for high performers to answer.

Because when you’re good at achieving, it's easy to drive 100 MPH down the interstate in the wrong direction.

You hit the milestone.

Then the next one appears.

You make more money.

Then your lifestyle adjusts.

You earn the title.

Then you start comparing yourself to the person one level above you.

And eventually you can wake up with a life that looks impressive from the outside…

but feels strangely misaligned on the inside.

That’s where Girard’s idea hits hard.

The danger isn’t ambition.

The danger is borrowed ambition.

Wanting things because they are meaningful to someone else.

Chasing a life you never actually examined.

This is why I think the “what’s next?” question is so important for mid-career professionals.

Because once you have built some financial security, the deeper question isn’t:

Can I afford to keep climbing?

It’s:

Do I still want the thing I’m climbing toward?

Financial planning can help answer the technical questions.

Can I retire?
Can I change careers?
Can I buy the property?
Can I take less income?
Can I step away?

But the better planning conversations usually start one layer deeper.

What is actually worth wanting?

Because if you don’t answer that honestly, you may spend the next decade optimizing a life you never really chose.

*This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Individual circumstances vary. Consult appropriate professionals regarding your specific situation.

I’m reading a really challenging book right now.

It’s dense.
It’s slow.
It’s the kind of book you have to wrestle with instead of consume.

The book?

The Tortoise and the Hare.

The older I get, the more I think it’s a lesson for me than it is for Roman.

Because the hare looks impressive.

Fast.
Talented.
Confident.
Hard to ignore.

But the tortoise understands something the hare doesn’t:

Pace matters.

I thought about that during Murph on Memorial Day.

For the first run, I was slow. Very slow.

There were guys out there running 5- and 6-minute miles, and I was one of the last ones back in after the first mile.

It would have been easy to feel behind.

But I knew what was coming.

100 pull-ups.
200 push-ups.
300 squats.
Another mile run.

So I stayed patient.

I paced the run.
Kept moving.
Didn’t redline too early.

And by the end, I finished in the top 5% of the workout.

Not because I was the fastest.

Because I didn’t burn out trying to look fast at the beginning.

That feels like a pretty good metaphor for life.

In business, fitness, family, and money, it is easy to admire speed.

The fast promotion.
The big exit.
The overnight success.
The aggressive investment.
The person who seems to be sprinting ahead.

But most durable things are built by people who know how to pace themselves.

A healthy marriage.
A strong family.
A resilient business.
A body that can carry responsibility.
A financial life that creates options.

The tortoise is not slow because he lacks ambition.

He is steady because he sees the big picture.

The goal is not to look fast.

The goal is to finish with something intact.

Your health.
Your relationships.
Your integrity.
Your peace.
Your ability to keep going.

This past Memorial Day, the best part wasn’t finishing near the top.

It was looking over and seeing Roman trying to do pushups next to me.

A reminder that the pace I choose is not just shaping my life.

It’s shaping what he sees as normal.

Less sprinting.

More compounding.

Be the tortoise.

*This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Individual circumstances vary. Consult appropriate professionals regarding your specific situation.

This past year has felt like responsibility expanding in every direction.

At work, we’ve grown from one employee to three.

At home, we’ve grown from one child to two.

Different worlds.

Same lesson.

You don’t wait until opportunity arrives to build the foundation.

You build the foundation so you’re ready when opportunity comes knocking.

For a long time, I thought growth was mostly about saying yes.

Yes to the next client.
Yes to the next hire.
Yes to the next project.
Yes to the next opportunity.

But this past year has taught me something different.

Growth requires subtraction before addition.

You have to cut the fat.

Get clear on what actually matters.

Stop giving energy to things that make you feel busy.

Create margin before you need it.

Because when life starts expanding, you don’t rise to the level of the opportunity.

You fall back to the strength of your foundation.

That’s true in business.

It’s true in marriage.

It’s true in fatherhood.

It’s true in your health.

And it’s true in financial planning.

The goal is not to make your life as full as possible.

The goal is to give attention to the areas that are actually blossoming.

This season has forced me to ask:

What deserves more of me?

And just as importantly:

What no longer does?
Because responsibility doesn’t usually arrive with perfect timing.

The second child comes.

The team grows.

The business needs more leadership.

The opportunities increase.

And if the foundation is weak, all of that feels overwhelming.

But if you’ve done the quiet work ahead of time…

the new responsibility doesn’t crush you.

It calls you forward.

That’s the kind of growth I want.

Less noise.

More clarity.

Less chasing.

More stewardship.

And enough margin to say yes when the right opportunities finally arrive.

*This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Individual circumstances vary. Consult appropriate professionals regarding your specific situation.

“I just got laid off… and somehow this might be my highest tax year ever.”

That sounds backwards.

This is a situation many professionals face during career transitions.

A high-performing professional spends decades building a career.

Then suddenly they’re separated from the company.

Now they’re staring at a completely different financial picture:

Severance.
Company stock.
Stock options.
A large 401(k).
A child heading to college.
A new job offer that may pay less, but provide more flexibility.
And a tax bill they can’t quite see yet.

On paper, there’s money.

But emotionally?

It feels like uncertainty.

Because the question isn’t just:

“How much did I make this year?”
It becomes:
How much should I set aside for taxes?
Should I exercise the options now or wait?
Should I sell company stock?
Should I roll over the 401(k)?
Should I take the new job?
Can I afford to work less?
Can I retire earlier than I thought?
Am I about to make one expensive mistake?

This is where a lot of high-performing professionals feel stuck.

Not because they’ve been careless.

Because their income changed faster than their plan.

The W-2 system works reasonably well when life is predictable.

But the moment you add severance, stock comp, options, capital gains, and a career transition, your old tax structure may no longer fit.

That’s when tax planning stops being about “deductions.”

It becomes about timing.

The goal isn’t to avoid taxes.

It’s to avoid being surprised by them.

A layoff with severance can feel like an ending.

But with the right planning, it can also become a decision point.

A chance to ask:

What do I want this next season to look like?

And how do I coordinate the money, taxes, and career decisions to support that life?

Because the biggest mistake in a transition year is waiting until tax season to find out what already happened.

*This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized financial, tax, legal, or investment advice. Individual circumstances vary. Consult appropriate professionals regarding your specific situation.

A significant gain in a single stock can create opportunities—but it can also create planning decisions.

But it is still a problem that needs a plan.

A recent conversation involved a question many employees with concentrated stock positions face:

“It’s been on a great run this month, but I’m wondering if you might recommend selling a portion and diversifying away from a single stock? Also, if I were to sell and reinvest in say, a mutual fund does that trigger a taxable event?”

That question captures the exact tension a lot of Dell employees and former Dell employees may be feeling right now.

You’re glad the stock is up.

But now you have to decide what to do with it.

And that decision gets complicated when the stock came from years of working at the company.

RSUs.
ESPP shares.
Stock options.
Old shares with large embedded gains.

You don’t just see a ticker symbol.

You see years of work.
Career history.
Company loyalty.
And the possibility that it could keep going higher.

That’s what makes concentrated stock so emotionally difficult.

The risk is obvious on paper.

But the decision rarely feels obvious in real life.

And yes —In many cases, selling appreciated stock held in a taxable account may result in capital gains taxes.

Which means this is not just an investment decision.

It’s a tax planning decision.

Before selling, you want to understand:

• Which tax lots have the largest gains
• Whether some shares qualify for long-term capital gains treatment
• Whether charitable giving could be done with appreciated shares instead of cash
• Whether a donor-advised fund makes sense
• Whether an exchange fund could help reduce single-stock concentration, where available and appropriate
• Whether sales should happen all at once or across multiple tax years

The goal is not to guess the top.

The goal is to turn concentrated wealth into coordinated wealth.

Because “the stock went up” is good news.

What you do with that good news is the plan.

This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as personalized investment, tax, or legal advice. Examples are illustrative only. Investment and tax decisions should be evaluated based on an individual's circumstances. Past performance is not indicative of future results.

Most people don’t realize they’re being ruled…

until they start trying to take control of their life.

One idea I’ve been thinking about from We Who Wrestle with God by Jordan B. Peterson is this progression:

The tyrant.
The desert.
The promised land.

At first, life is structured for you.

A job you don’t fully control.
A schedule you didn’t design.
Expectations you didn’t question.

Nothing is necessarily “wrong.”

But you’re not fully free either.

That’s the tyrant.

Not always a person.

Sometimes just a system you’ve been living inside for so long that it feels normal.

Eventually, some people decide to leave.

They take a step toward something different.

More ownership.
More control.
More responsibility.

That’s where things get misunderstood.

Because leaving the tyrant doesn’t immediately lead to freedom.

It leads to the desert.

Uncertainty.
Risk.
Doubt.
Long stretches where nothing feels settled.

This is where most people turn back.

Not because they can’t make it.

Because the discomfort feels like a sign they made the wrong decision.

But it’s not.

It’s part of the process.

The people who keep going eventually reach something different.

Not perfection.

But stability that they actually designed.

A life where:

Their time is more aligned.
Their work has meaning.
Their financial decisions feel intentional.

That’s the “land of milk and honey.”

Not easy.

But earned.

And in my experience, this shows up just as much in people’s financial lives as it does anywhere else.

Most people aren’t stuck because they lack opportunity.

They’re stuck because they haven’t decided to leave what’s comfortable.

And the ones who do…

have to be willing to walk through a season where nothing feels certain.

That’s the tradeoff.

And it’s also the path.

*This content is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as investment, tax, or financial advice.