Benny

Although we live in modern times, I will forever look up to the fashion and presentation of women of the 50’s. We as women have come a long way since then in terms of progress and I’m proud of much of that, however as it pertains to presenting one’s self, I feel like we’ve taken a step backward as society. Slobby dressing and attire that shows of more of the body than it covers has become the norm sadly. What are your thoughts? Comment below!

✨Sunday’s thought…We all have gifts, talents, abilities, resources and time. Over the past week I’ve been reflecting more on our Pastor’s message last week in generosity and how to put this scripture into action within my immediate family at home, in our neighborhood, and in other ways such as hosting more events due to our home being a spacious entertaining space. I remember the many years I lived in small and not-so-entertaining-friendly homes/condos/townhomes. This is the time I personally feel called to serve in such a capacity. I’m doing this by having Lily’s friends here to play/for meals, our friends over for dinners/ play dates and I’m hosting my biggest event (a brunch) in a couple weeks with 25 ladies from our Women’s church group. It can feel daunting sometimes to step outside of our comfort zone, but always worth it! 😊

✨It requires time, effort, creativity, some financial cost and preparation but I think to myself that we have this home to offer and be a blessing. I haven’t always embraced a lot of entertaining, although I’ve always wanted to, but my perfectionistic tendencies have held me back. Maybe in a decade we will still have this beautiful indoor/outdoor space (or maybe we won’t). And while we do have a baby and an older child, it’s not always easy, but I do want to look back and know that I made the effort instead of excuses while I’m afforded this opportunity and space to do so.

✨There is a lot of joy and fulfilment that comes from serving others and being generous with what God has given us. In this self-focused world it’s important to take some time to write down a few ways we can give of ourselves this year. Many forms of generosity and serving don’t cost a thing, just some of our time. 💕

What ways do you wish to be more generous this year to serve others? I find writing/typing/sharing aloud helps hold us accountable.

Just a reminder…YOU are only in competition with your past self. Be one step better than you were yesterday in at least one area. Stay in your own lane, and keep your eyes only on where YOU are going!

Focus on the things that move the needle, not busywork or what everyone else seems to be doing better than you. Stop thinking everybody else has it all figured out-they don’t! I promise. 💕