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Happy New Year’s Eve. 🍾🍾

➡️ Remember this coming year to work hard for what you want and love in your life….

BUT don’t be “hard” on yourself.

Instead, pay attention to the difference between taking lots of action towards what you love versus taking action to feel better so you can stop the internal self judgment and shame (which will actually stop you from taking action & getting what you want ultimately).

➡️ Because working hard just means doing lots of things that are aligned with what you want and love in your life, it does not mean we have to exhaust ourselves, overwork and drain ourselves to be “worthy” or “good”.

Say YES to taking ACTION to get what you want and love.

And No to being “harder” on yourself.

Liked this post, come listen or watch episode 63: How to turn your Failed Goals back to Success under my IG profile link and down the FREE workbook to follow along and help you accomplish your harder goals for 2024.

Listen to the new episode - my 5 do’s & dont’s under my IG link. Hope you all are having a lovely Friday. 🥰🥰🥰

If I have learned one thing, people are going to be who they are, no matter how hard you try and control them.

In fact, they are always trying to show us who they are by their actions. How they ACT is a strong indicator of who they are. Pay attention to their actions, more than their words. Inaction can also speak volumes. You’ll get a sense real quick.

The sooner you stop trying to control other people’s behavior so you can feel a certain way, the sooner you are going to be able to find the people who share your values & needs and get into healthy, loving and deeply intimate relationships with people that work with your values and needs.

If something doesn’t work out, it’s not the other person’s fault per se, it’s just that your values &needs were out of alignment with theirs and because you love and respect yourself so much, you are going to get your own back and honor your values and needs. It’s how you learn self-love and self- trust, two of best feelings in the world.