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Let’s do something fun this week! Follow along each day for all the ups and downs of my journey!

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Part 1: Secretly Desperate For Change!

I used to live my life as if it was a social media highlight reel.⁠ 🎞️
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"Fake it till you make it."⁠ 😬
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Smile through my burnout.⁠ 🥹
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Hide my feelings behind fake laughs.⁠ ☺️
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&& when no one was watching, I'd cry. A lot. ⁠😭

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I would put up a strong front, but behind closed doors I’d be:

- Researching what career is best for my personality type

- Pinning the healthiest recipes and best workouts to lose weight

- Watching TV series that were inspiring vs entertaining

- Reading numerous self-help books

- && Visiting multiple apartment buildings to see if I could afford to live on my own and leave my joint living situation I had with my boyfriend

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I was desperate to be happy. I felt stuck. && I was completely lost on how to make long term change, because everything I did didn’t work.

I ended up staying unhappy and having a million photos just like this one, where even my “fake it till you make it” smile didn't fool anyone.

Stay tuned for part✌️tomorrow!

This is me. The dorky. Real. Silly. Me!⁠ 😋

My brother, soon to be sister-n-law, fiancé, and I were having way too much fun exploring Colorado National Monument and ended up taking these ridiculous photos! (Swipe to see "Honey I shrunk the kids" vibes)

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Taking these photos brought my inner child to LIFE!

We were laughing, cracking jokes, and playing out what our other siblings would say about them!

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I remember having MAJOR high school trip to Paris, France flashbacks, where we pretended to lean on the Eiffel Tower!
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Comment below with how you tune into your inner child?

Have you ever been asked “what do you want in a partner?” and your response has been “Umm .. no. But I DEFINITELY don’t want “x, y, or z”.

That’s ok! That’s a great start!

The fact of the matter is, knowing what you don’t want in a partner will steer you closer to what you truly DO want - and that’s where the magic happens!

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When you know what you want, you are able to:

Turn down anyone who isn’t “the one” with ease and grace, versus ghosting and feeling guilty.

You stop wasting time on dating apps that aren’t providing you quality matches, and take the time to align your desires with the right dating app.

&& You have the strength to put all of your energy into people who are aligned with your dreams.

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So, honor where you are and be proud that you know what you absolutely DON’T want, but then dig deep and discover what you truly do want, so that magic can kick in. 

If you need additional support, message me, because helping you discover what you truly want is my specialty! 🤍 🤍 🤍