Spill Clash

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Aita: I refused to cut my hair for my sisters wedding

Me [ 22 f ] is going to my sisters [ 26 ] wedding in a few weeks she has short brown hair she got from our dad I have long wavy blonde hair it has took me a long time to grow now my sister could have long hair but she cuts it all the time but this weekend she asked me to cut my hair I was pretty much surprised and I told her no she left me on read forgot to say she texted me the next day I woke up from multiple texts from my family saying I was an a__hole I am now thing of cutting my hair what should I do?

Edit: I went to go see my sister to talk about things and I told her how I felt about things and I told her I whould just wear a wig she told me that was not good enough so I am now sitting at a shop trimming my hair a little bit short that’s all I am willing to do or f__k her wedding because I am so tried of this

AITA for not paying for my girlfriend's haircut?

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AITAH for not extending sympathy toward my SIL's for having miscarriages?

My husband's brother, Seth (27), and his wife, Carol(28) have decided that they want to have five children, and that they'd like to have all of them before turning 30. They currently have 3. I'm not certain where they plan to put all of these additional children, as Seth and Carol currently live in a two-bedroom trailer on my husband's parent's property. They have both admitted that they have no means or plans of acquiring a bigger place any time soon, but that's the least of their worries.

Carol has borderline personality disorder, and it is not well-managed.

Less than a month prior to Carol getting pregnant with her youngest child (M,1 month) Carol had to have our MIL rush over to their trailer to watch her two girls (3,5) in the middle of the night, because Carol had been in the bathroom self-harming and had gone too deep.

Carol also has a pretty severe drinking problem. Carol would get thrashed and then repeatedly call me and my husband at all hours of the night, expecting us to act as free therapy at 3 in the morning because she was upset over situations that were by and large her own fault. It took several, very serious conversations to get her to stop doing that.

Well, as I've mentioned, Carol got pregnant and now has a 1 month old infant who she wont stop referring to as her "rainbow baby" because she had 2 miscarriages prior to conceiving him - but here's the thing, Carol was drinking heavily on a daily basis prior to conceiving this baby and I assume that's the reason that she miscarried the other two.

It has never made sense to me how someone who is actively trying to get pregnant would...