Authoress Mahasolin Mack

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“He Want Me to Do Too Much Too Soon”

Hey Maha,

I met this man two months ago, and everything moved fast. We talk every day, he’s already met my kids, and now he talking about us moving in together. At first I was flattered, but now I’m feeling pressured. He real persistent, always bringing up how rent would be cheaper if we just lived together and how he’d be a good male figure for my boys.

But I don’t know him like that. I don’t know his credit, his temper, or if he even wipes the toilet seat. He say I got trust issues, but I say I got common sense. I’m scared I’ma push away a good man away, but I’m also scared I’ma end up regretting it. What you think?

Maha's Response:

Hunni... listen. It’s not a trust issue; it’s a timing issue. This man tryna speedrun a relationship like y'all playing Mario Kart. You not wrong for takin your time. In fact, you’d be wrong if you didn’t. Especially with your babies involved. It's not just about who you let in your bed. It’s about who you let near your kids, your peace, and your bills.

Tell him straight up: “I move at my own pace. Respect it or leave it.” A real one gon understand that. A manipulative one gon gaslight you for thinkin logically. And girl, if he tryin to split rent after 8 weeks? He might be lookin for housing, not love. I'm just sayin.

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