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We hear it a lot …
“Stay in your lane.”
“Do what you love.”
“Stick to what you’re good at.”
“Find your strength and stay in your zone of Genius.”
Yes/and
If that’s all we do- we stay comfortable. Safe.
To manifest takes slight discomfort. There is discomfort in the unknown, discomfort found at the edge of growth as we push beyond what has felt safe.
And now … what’s behind the image - because there is always more behind the image.
A wife.
A first time mowing the lawn in almost 20 years of marriage.
It isn’t that I wasn’t willing - it was that he just did it (he enjoys tending to the lawn- and yet I’m sure he feels burdened by it at times).
He’s never asked me. I’ve never offered.
Until we found ourselves here - in recovery after his heart attack and quadruple bypass surgery.
As I mowed yesterday it made me appreciate all of the times he did it without much mention of it. All of the years he’s just done it.
As I pushed that mower I wondered what else there was that he tends to that I perhaps could offer to experience.
As I went up and down the lawn, I felt that connection to my own inner bad ass - the excitement and sense of accomplishment of doing something new (even if imperfectly and with learning curves).
As the blades cut the grass it made wonder for you, Dear Loves … it made me wonder what you do on autopilot and what fresh perspective you’d have for yourself and others by simply offering “Would you be willing to show me how you do that and could I take this over for you for the month?”
Or
“Can I share this task with you this week?”
In a world of a LOT of “I wish THEY/THOSE people would change, do better….”
We get to ask ourselves … “How can I do better - what can I do differently? What am I responsible for shifting for MYSELF?”

If you feel so brave - I’d sure love what comes to mind as you read this … what tasks you defer to others, what you take on automatically, what you’d be willing to do to create a shift in perspective.

Because THAT shift is a shift in energy and THAT is a key to manifestation.

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