Isaac

Stop letting what’s “acceptable in society” hold you back from meeting your wife

F**k what other people think

What do YOU think when you look in the mirror?

Do you want to be the kind of man who lets the opinions of others control him?

Or the kind of man who creates magic for himself and his future wife?
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Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams

       

The bad news: Society lied to you bro.

The dating game isn’t what you think

The good news: you can learn the rules of the real game just like you learned the rules of money, career and fitness

They might look different, but dating skills are skills just like anything else

Once you learn how they work, you can master the game
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Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams

       

If there’s 1 piece of advice I could give my younger self, it’d be this:

You can change bro.

Even though you’ve never been able to attract the women you actually liked, that doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you

It just means there’s something wrong with what you’re DOING

Big big big difference

You can level up your actions, your patterns, you cal learn dating skills

The future version of you dates the woman of your dreams and feels amazing confidence and freedom socially

All you have to do is take the concrete steps required to become him

Even if you feel like you’ve tried everything, you haven’t

You’ve tried to same couple things over and over again expecting a different result

(That’s the definition of insanity)

You need to try differently

You need an actual strategy that you can stick to

There’s plenty out there that work

If you want mine, comment “strategy” and I’ll DM it to you

Let’s level up man💪🏼
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1. If you don’t choose your character, the game assigns you one

The default character is victim → lonely → quietly desperate → settle → divorced.
Most guys never customize their character. You can.

2. Your load out point is random

Some players start with more height, others with higher intelligence or gold.
It’s not fair. It doesn’t matter. Your best strategy is to focus on playing the game the best that you can regardless.

3. Your build is customizable

Your base stats are fixed, but what you do with them isn’t.
You’ve got decades to experiment, try and fail, and find a playing style that fits who you are

4. Don’t fight your character type

Work with it.
Some guys will be the life of the party
Other guys will be the nerdy introvert
There’s a winning strategy for each character type
All you have to do is find yours

5. You level up through reps, not talent

Talent is a multiplier. It doesn’t produce results on its own
Repeatedly doing hard things beats “natural talent” every time.

6. The objective isn’t what you think

I’d trade 1,000 meaningless hookups for 1 night with my girl in an instant
But I had to go through the hookups to get there

7. You can’t see the whole map

I used to think the game was getting her to like me
Turns out the real game was liking myself
We can never have perfect information. The only way to reveal more of the map is to start walking

8. Time is the most overpowered currency

Learning doesn’t add, it compounds
The sooner you start and the longer you keep trying, the higher level you’ll get

9. You can change classes mid-game

You’re not locked into your identity, relationship or role.
I started my game as a coward
At age 18 I changed to hero
At age 23, player
At age 25, boyfriend
Switching feels scary, but staying stuck costs more XP.

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If you’re successful but still can’t get a girlfriend, it’s not hopeless man

There are concrete levers you can pull to become more attractive to the women you like

You just have to apply the same courage, work ethic and consistency to developing your dating skills that you used to learn the skills for your career

This video outlines 3 simple things you can start doing now to meet a great partner
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Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams

       

Hard truth: your resume won’t get you a girlfriend man

Your skills will

But not the same ones that helped you win in your career

Dating skills are different

They live in the mental, emotional and social domains

How do you present yourself?

Do you have a brand?

Are you talking to the women you’re attracted to?

Or are you letting the opportunities go by?

Do you know how to flirt?

Or do you live in logic mode all the time?

Do you know how to be secure in yourself?

Or are you repeating the same validation seeking patterns from childhood?

If you value a relationship, it’s time to stop thinking it’ll just fall into your lap and start doing the things required to get one
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Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams

       

How’d I become more attractive?

I became more secure

How’d I become more secure?

I leveled up my “2 B’s”:

1. Behavior
2. Beliefs

I started acting (behavior) like the secure version of myself

And I started believing that I was good enough

The road there isn’t obvious, but it is simple:

Practice

If you care about this stuff and want to chat more about how I uncovered my unresolved wounds and limitations, comment “date” and I’ll slide into your DMs
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Become the version of yourself who attracts the relationship of your dreams