Heal on Purpose with Doc Yu Roc

Let’s reintroduce this work.

Therapeutic B**M™ is a structured, somatic, power-conscious intervention that supports healing through intentionally facilitated B**M practices. It’s rooted in trauma-informed care, consent, and embodiment.

This approach isn’t about playing with kink. It’s about using it, intentionally and ethically, as a tool for transformation.

The Therapeutic B**M Collaborative Network (TBCN) was created to make this work sustainable, ethical, and supported. It brings together clinicians, pro practitioners, and educators who are trained to collaborate in service of client care.

Applications for the next TBCN cohort are now open.
The work is ready. If you are too, we’d love to have you.

Learn more via the link in bio.

Power. Positioning. Palatability.
Who gets to lead in kink spaces, and who gets left behind?

It's easy to pretend leadership is about skill or passion alone.
But the truth is, who gets seen, heard, and trusted is often shaped by deeper forces:
✔️ Who is deemed palatable
✔️ Who is positioned close to existing power
✔️ Who fits a narrative that's "safe" for the mainstream

Kink spaces talk about freedom, but too often, they replicate the same exclusions we see everywhere else.
Race. Size. Ability. Class. Gender performance. They still matter.

We deserve more than representation.
We deserve real redistribution of power.

I’m not asking for permission.
I’m creating my own position.
Doc Yu Roc

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Swipe through for a reflection on leadership, liberation, and reclaiming space in kink — and beyond.
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ChatGPT can make mis

I've gotten to the point that for all the energy I put out, I must recalibrate with a reset.

It's not even a matter of want. It is a necessity.

As the saying goes, this is not a sprint it is a marathon, and I have been running it out of shape mentally, physically, and emotionally, and that is no longer sustainable.

I must condition myself, and I can not wait for permission. For space. For time. Or for fu***ng consideration.

I must give it to myself NOW.

So my current form of self care is sensory deprivation. Heading back to get my float on. I had my first experience last month and it was unexpectedly painful as it forced me to begin to release decades of tension I wasn't even aware of.

I had muscle spams and aches for weeks. Let's see what round two do.

Pic of me sitting on them folks desk presenting for three hours this past Saturday for the Illinois Marriage and Family Therapist Conference.

I am a three times self-publised author!

I refused to wait on someone else to see my value and the worth of my work and chose my damn self.
I decided not to pitch to publishing, not because I didn't want that experience but because denial became exhausting, so I did the s**t myself!

I wanted the prestige of being printed in academic journals but was turned off by the ivy hoops of institutional writing so I wrote an "academic" book that allowed me to blend science, and research, and humor, and literature, and ME.

I am so damn PROUD of myself for multiple reasons. Not the least of them is taking on this challenge.