Connor Smiles

Now that school is out for summer, many parents are looking for opportunities for their children to learn and grow. For parents deciding to send their children to summer camps, it can feel exciting… and overwhelming, especially if it’s their first camp experience.

Almost three years ago we made the decision to allow our 16-year old son, Connor to attend his first summer camp. Little did we know that he would never make it home to tell us how the experience went. 😢

Parents often wonder:
“Am I making the right choice?”
“Will my child be safe?”
“Will they feel included, understood, and cared for?”

The truth is, asking questions is not being difficult. It’s being a parent. {slide to see a list of questions that may be helpful}

For parents of children with disabilities, choosing a camp often comes with an added layer of fear and trust. You deserve reassurance, transparency, and support, not judgment for asking questions.

For parents who have children with special needs, a good camp won’t make you feel like your child is “too much.” The right environment will make your child feel welcomed, celebrated, and safe.

And to every parent carrying anxiety while preparing for summer activities:
You know your child best.
Trust your instincts.

For those who serve as camp staff/officials, be completely honest and transparent with parents. Tell them everything. Every move their child will be making during the camp needs to be communicated with the parents.

If we could rewind time, Connor would have never gone. Inadequate supervision, lack of safety protocols, and lack of qualified trained staff (special needs, water safety, and safety protocols) are the reason our boy is no longer here. What we wouldn’t do to have him back here with us..

Please share this information with those that are looking to send their kids to camp this summer.