Arrowhead Advising

200,000 miles from Earth, mid-flight on Artemis II, a reporter asked ifastronaut Victor Glover had a message for the people back home. Looking back out our tiny planet in comparison to the vast cosmos, he realized that we’re all on the same ship.

He called Earth an oasis, a created place in the middle of an endless nothing, and said the thing most of us know but keep forgetting: we have to get through this together.

We honor our identities, our wounds, our individual stories, and we should. But there’s a difference between honoring those things and being consumed by them. The work is healing enough to participate in something larger than your own story.

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The weight of unnamed things doesn’t get lighter just because you’ve learned to carry it well.

I’ve been code-switching since I was a kid. For a long time, I called it adaptability.

What I didn’t have a name for was what it was actually doing to me. It was training me to doubt my own read on a situation, to tell myself “it’s probably fine” instead of “that’s not how I should be treated.”

There’s a difference between code switching as a tool you choose and code switching as a lens you can’t take off.

The full piece is live now on Substack. Link in bio.

What kind of leader am I, really?

How do I choose to show up when things are uncertain? Or when I feel overlooked and tired?

I’ve been wrestling with the gap between who I am and who I’m being called to be, and whether I actually believe in the kind of transformation I say I want to see.

Truthfully, I don’t have it figured out, but I think that might just be the point.

If you’re looking for a space to actually sit with the hard questions (and answers), then follow along with my Substack, where I’ll be releasing new articles every Monday.
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