Untethered Purpose

Have you ever questioned if you can build your own successful business, be a mom, and be great at both?

All too often women believe they need to choose one over the other.

It doesn’t have to be this way. It is possible to do both and do them well.

Do you ever question whether or not you bury your emotions?

Do you feel fear around wondering what will come up for you if you allow for them? Perhaps you don’t even know how to access them.

Once you learn & get comfortable with identifying, feeling and processing ANY and ALL emotions, you truly become unstoppable and willing to try anything, because you’ve learned that the worst that can happen is feeling an uncomfy emotion - one that you can feel all the way to the other side.

And guess what? An emotion will never kill you. If you were willing to feel any emotion, what would you be willing to do or try?

Do you know what your gifts are? If so, do you BELIEVE in their worth? Do you believe in their VALUE? Do you believe that YOU truly can use them to make an impact? Do you know that you have been designed to do something great with your life? You are already fully equipped. So what’s stopping you or holding you back from stepping into your gifts fully? Answer, your mind. Your thinking. Your beliefs about yourself. I’ve shared on her before, that for years I played it safe. I purposely placed myself in the background and I believed I had nothing valuable to say. Can you relate at all? What changed for me? How did i start fully stepping into the person who confidently leads with her gifts? Two things - I found coaching. I hired a Life Coach. I started rewiring the parts of my mind that were telling me the above & coupled this t with specific prayers. The last 5 years, I’ve had the honor to help so many unbelievably gifted women (and a few lucky men) step into the person they were designed to be and desire to be. Do you struggle with low self-esteem? Do you devalue your gifts? Are playing it safe and small on purpose? Do you know you are designed for more but been paralyzed by fear? If so, I get it! Please DM me. Let me gift you a exploratory call that will create so much insight and possibility for yourself and your life. Yesterday, After I held one of these calls for a woman who felt so undeserving and so hooked, said to me at the end of our call, “For the first time in years I feel hopeful. I feel like my vision for myself is possible.” It is possible for you too my friend. I look forward to hearing from you. Together, we will untether your unique purpose.

Whew! Feeling more myself again. The last month was a definite month of feeling a lot of my raw emotions. I am always up for this, but this time around, they lasted longer than I am used to. I took some time away from this platform, spent more time alone and with God, reached out to certain people I wanted to share with, asked for help and prayer, spent more time writing and shifting what my brain was telling me, and I gave myself a lot of extra compassion and room to move slower than usual. Feeling our uncomfy emotions isn’t something we naturally allow ourself to do. We have so many distractions at our finger tips that actually distract us from feeling. There were a few times I would’ve rather poured a glass of wine or aimlessly scrolled social media, but instead I did what was necessary to come out the other side of my funk in a way that would actually serve me. Did you know that numbing our negative emotions actually heightens them? You may feel a temporary sense of relief, but they will come back even more intense and show up in ways we aren’t proud of, if we don’t take the time to allow ourselves to actually FEEL them. How do you handle your not so fun emotions? Do you over-busy your calendar, pour an extra drink, overeat, zone out to Netflix, mindlessly scroll on your phone? If so, you’re not alone. Many of my coaching clients first come to me not really knowing how to FEEL their emotions & they have their patterned habits of numbing out. As a result, they are distant from themselves and can’t seem to kick certain habits they know are not serving them. If this is you, let me show you a different way to live. Negative emotions are part of being alive. How you learn to process and allow for them, is such a valuable thing to allow for yourself and those close to you (especially if / when you’re raising little humans). DM me if you desire to stop escaping from yourself, your life, your problems, your emotions, and feel more connected to yourself, to God and to others. I would love to show you another way. I’ve got you.

This pic was taken yesterday, after what felt like an outer body experience. I wanted to capture this moment, to remember it.
I’ve been in a funk the last month. I’ve felt heavy chested & that I could cry at at any moment.
I’ve been carrying the weight of a husband that is back to his ‘pre-Covid’ work-travel schedule, running a business, a single mom the last month, and the reality that I moved away from the comfort of my family and old and dear friends has really kicked in.
Will there ever be an end in sight to his travel? Did we make a mistake? Are a few question I’ve been asking.
I also recently got accepted into a competitive Mastermind for my coaching business - it has been a goal of mine for a few years now. Although exciting, I’ve felt all sorts of emotions come up since I got accepted. Do I have what it takes to be here? Am I made for this next level? Are some questions I’ve been asking.
At church yesterday, a girl that was visiting came up to me after service and said, “I can feel your weight. I am nervous to ask you this but I can’t ignore the message God wants me to share with you. Can I please pray for you?” I agreed and she wrapped her arms around me. I could feel her shaking.
The summarized version of her prayer - You’re so beautiful. He wants you to know this. You keep on your track of helping people. This is your purpose. You can do this. You are meant to do this. And there is a plan in place for you and your family. He is with you every step of the way.
I felt peace enter my body. She could feel it too. I cried (like ugly cried), we hugged. I thanked her. And off we went.
I was blown away (and also not), by her words. She couldn’t have known anything about me. I’ve had these types of (purposeful) encounters happen a few times in my life now. Early on in my faith, these encounters would’ve seemed unbelievable to me. They aren’t anymore.
I share this because many of us struggle. It’s part of being a human. Mamy of us can feel hopeless and afraid. Many of us have unanswered questions. Are you open to hearing the messages that are meant for you?