UrbanXplay

Happy National Coming Out Day 🏳️‍🌈
..but please, please know you can redo this day as many times as you want, or need, to

You can change your mind.

Your desires can adjust.

You are NOT stuck with the "last" thing you came out as

Or the first thing

You can celebrate coming out 🎉

Or you can simple just do you

The important thing to note is you have choice here

Freedom.

That freedom is what National Coming Out Day is all about 🙌🏾

So this is just your friendly reminder from someone who cam out as Le***an. Went through hell realizing she was Bisexual. To now today know that I'm just a q***r (k)inkster that enjoys people.

You CAN change your mind, as often as you'd like.

You are still valid and you were valid through those other versions of yourself as well 👏🏾

Pansexual is likely the logical term for me these days. But I don't even say that. Just a person that likes other persons 😋

And who knows, a year or two from now...it might all change again 🥰

That's the point..I get to decide.

And so do you

Dear Black Ki****er, finding community can be hard

But it doesn't have to be debilitating and I promise that it does get easier.

Some of us are the kind of people that walk into a room and we've never met a stranger. We find conversation relatively easy and flows with most folx. But others of us, are afraid to even join into the conversation in a comments section (no judgement lol I'm a bit of both 😋)

And honestly, the hardest part is just knowing *where* to look!! 🗣️"say, where y'all at?". You find one Black Ki****er and you just be like "Look, we're besties now and you're taking me to EVERYTHING" 😂

So this is a post about validation. This is a post about encouraging you to do hard things. And this is a post to share with you some pages and communities that have been essential in my growth as a ki****er or that I've had the pleasure of supporting and watching them support others in our growing community (and subset communities).

What is an account, a group, a community, a dope s*x worker you think we should all be following? Tag them in the comments! What about someone that is looking for community, AT them here - let's be friends 🥰

p.s. I gave you an assignment in the slides, be a good girl, a sweet boy, or precious human being and get it done, okay 😈

****er **M ***r