One Dope Couple

When I say setting goals in your relationship, I’m referring to the relationship itself.

Not the kids. Not finances. Not household s**t.
Not anything external of the two people in the relationship.

Like now that yall are together....
how are you going to grow together as a unit....
what’s the point of yall being together...
how are yall building each other up physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually ...
what self work do you have to do individually to ensure the relationship thrives forever...
what values does your relationship stand on & how are you upholding those values....
I could go on & on.

REAL RELATIONSHIP GOALS

It gotta be more than I love you & you love me.
So let’s just be together. It’s not enough. I think that’s why a lot of people aren’t fulfilled in their relationship.
The RELATIONSHIP itself has to be fed...outside of adult responsibilities (finances, kids, household)

Trone & I have been married coming up on 10 years &&& we are STILL in the honeymoon
“phase”. I believe us being goal oriented within our relationship has been one of the key reasons for that.

What’s some goals yall have set in your relationship?

I love being his wife. 🥰

The truth is I didn’t know how to be a wife when we got married but s**t who does? There’s no manual for this. I just did & have been doing what I believe a wife should do & be.

Through love, communication & the mannnnyyyyyyyy lessons learned over the almost decade of us being married… I definitely have some things figured out but some 😮‍💨 I have to hold my hand up as if I’m in a classroom & ask him….uhhhh bae what do you need from me in the season, on the journey, in this situation, during this challenge, whatever….

I think that simple question has been a HUGE help in our marriage. As his wife, if I know what he needs, I can then throw some wifely spice on whatever it is & help him through it.

When was the last time you asked your partner, what do they need from you?

SN: Don’t let social media distort your views on love & healthy meaningful relationships. It’s REAL! It’s POSSIBLE!

🫶🏼 Adoria

Real happiness in a relationship comes from joyfully and selflessly serving your partner.

It’s when you do it out of love and caring for them, rather than out of the idea of it being an “obligation”.

We all know that love is not just a feeling, it's a constant action. It’s how we choose to show up daily for the one we care about.

It’s about setting the standard for who we’re going to be for them, so that they can receive the best of who we are.

This way of being has literally been one of the unspoken foundations of our marriage that has served us both so well.

And to be real, everything that we have built together has come with this shared mentality towards each other.

We want to hear from you family!

Share in the comments below your thoughts and beliefs on the value of serving one another in your relationships ❤️

Signed Trone 🤴🏿