Phyllis Iller

First self portraits in the new studio with the fellas. ✨ Shirt made by my cousin B Y S U L I!! “To be” is one of the strongest things a person can do.

They say a woman who cuts her hair bout to start some s**t. Externally, without question. Did that every time I cut my hair before. 💅🏾This time, though, I’m really focusing on doing the work to embrace the fly parts of me, to sift through and lighten my shadows. Sound mind, sound health. Wholistic type tings.

Cause, baby, I’m almost 40 years old and I don’t have time for my own bulls**t, much less someone else’s. 😂 🔪 I’m taking book recommendations, too! Flux just gifted me ’s Little Book of Big Lies. I’m ready for more.

2 things:

1. I love being her mama. Thanks for this pic, !
2. Watching my girls become young women is absolutely fascinating. The laughter, the arguments, how they resolve them, what matters to them, how they express themselves. It’s like a documentary in real time and further doubles down the fact that I love being a mama and an auntie.

They said he be actin’ up now, I told them stop talkin’ bout my godbaby like that. 😌

A young family full of love is a beautiful thing to witness. I seen a piggy back ride, an arm wrestle, and play fighting - this was the parents. Kason watched. From my vantage point, I see two youngins with a baby, having fun and figuring life out together. Praying that sweet abundance always surrounds them. 🩷