Ariel Fuller

If you are a & struggle with feeling used by a man here is my advice 👉🏾 You are NOT obligated to allow someone to keep dipping in your pot of treasure 🤩when they chose trash 🗑

Now this may sound harsh or petty but listen up! 👂🏾

As a woman of substance, you must recognize you are some man’s rib! Personally, I am confident, a loyal friend, and I carry a lot of substance & wisdom when it comes to business, spirituality, and life. I uplift men and believe in their visions & dreams!

However, my rare commodity doesn’t mean the men in my life have to choose me as THEIR wife, but my heart’s prayer is that all men choose substance over shallow 😔but unfortunately this doesn’t always happen!

Men know when they chose SHALLOW and as a single woman you can’t always be asked to make up for his lost & what his woman lacks.

Many women I coach who do this eventually feel used, hurt and like the “other woman” because they haven’t established BOUNDARIES based upon the value they bring.

Until you learn how to balance yourself, be confident to redirect men to the one they chose. Now don’t be (y’all know how you can be) 😂but do it with a pure heart…they may get a lil attitude or say you aren’t a “real friend” 🙄but honey you are the prize & they know you are the TRUTH!

In the long run you will respect you for valuing YOU and so will your future hubby! 😍

Love,
Ari

God doesn’t need you to be His micromanager. Trust, He knows how to manage your situation, his son, your dreams, visions, goals, and even His timing.

Open your hands 🤲🏾 close your eyes and trust Him.