The Tivis Project

This Thanksgiving, let’s share our babies with others.
If you’d like, feel free to personalize and share one of the graphics with your baby’s name. 🤍

We hold our babies in our hearts instead of our arms, and their absence is deeply felt at the family Thanksgiving table. That empty space carries so much love, longing, and remembrance.

Today, we honor them.
Today, we speak their names.
Today, we acknowledge that gratitude and grief can exist together.

We are forever grateful for our babies, and sharing them is one of the many ways we keep their love alive. 🕊️💛

Wishing you a gentle and love-filled Thanksgiving.

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Today holds space for both grief and joy. For families missing their baby(ies), this holiday can feel especially heavy—another moment, another memory, another seat at the table that reminds us of who is not here.

We long for our little ones to celebrate with us. Our hearts ache, even as we recognize the blessings still around us. It’s a day where love pulls us in so many directions, and that is okay.

If you need to step away from the festivities to breathe or to cry—please do.
If you find yourself enjoying the food, the laughter, the warmth—allow that, too.

You are doing your best, moment by moment.
Wishing you a Gentle Thanksgiving today. 💛🕊️

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I believe this wholeheartedly. As we are grieving we forget the world around us because we are hurting so bad. We are searching for a way to live again without all of our children here. We are not doing this intentionally; it just happens.