Hamdan's Research Lab

Well, don't you feel behind sometimes ? Like you suppose to be doing more, achieving more, etc... ?

If I have to talk about one thing I'm proud of about my journey is my ability to understand emotions pretty well. This is something didn't come naturally to, it's something I studied really well and spent hours and hours connecting the dots of human psychology and behavior. That's was for personal reasons, but I didn't realize back then that it would be of such importance in my life both personally and professionally.

You feel overwhelmed by the things you suppose to do but you're not doing yet, you distract yourself on social media where ppl's lives are very perfect, they are high achievers, they are getting paid better than you, they have travelled to places you wanted to travel to as well l... And you think, wow .. I'm behind, I'm supposed to be more. You get disappointed, upset, angry, and you feel stuck !!!

Yes people are going on with their lives, but they show you very little, only the good stuff are out there. They don't document the bad days, the crying over dump things , the fight against their complicated problems, The deteriorating health of them, the dark moments of disconnection with themselves, and so on.

You're on your own unique path, you're racing nobody, and you're navigating through your own journey. No one's life should look like yours. Give your self the space to cope and deal with the outside world and keep in minds, one's must have Chaos within oneself to be able to give birth to the dancing star ✨
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