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I turned 21 last month and I am struggling to explain this to my family. I am a female and I want to get married as soon as possible. My mother keeps saying “2–3 saal main kar dein gy” and she has been saying this for the past two years. This increases my fear of not getting married.

Alhamdulillah, I am stable in my career and practical in life. I also know how to manage a home. I want a partner who is ambitious and serious about building a future. I do not want to fall into haram, but my physical needs are getting difficult to control, especially during my ovulation period. This is a physical need and not something I can just switch off.

I am tall, 5'6, with very long hair, but I do not want to showcase myself in front of rishtay wali aunties. I want to find the right person in a modest and respectful way.

I pray a lot to Allah to make things easy for me, and please remember me in your prayers too.

Please help me understand how I can get married soon and find the right person without compromising my values.

Pls hide my identity...
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I m 29Y M. in mid of 2023 got engaged with csn after my education. She is now 19Y (Almost 10y younger than me) after engagement she blocked me from every single Social media platform at the start of 2025 i contact her and asked are you happy with me tell me if you are not happy i will break this engagement but she said i m happy with this, that's we start chatting everything was ok( wo mujh sy buhot piyar krny lgi mry ghussy ko bardasht krti samajhti mujhy choti age hony k bawajood) but after few months mujhy ussky ik relation ka pata usska classmate tha mn nay mangetor sy pocha uss bary mn ghussy sy to wo rony lg g*i k aisa kuch nhi tha hamary beach mn ny engagement k baad kisi sy koi rabta nhi kia but mn ess bat k peechy lg gya k jaan k hi rhn ga recently kuch comments dekhy uss larky ki videos pe. Mangetor sy pocha to ph sy rony lg g*i k poetry pe kiay thy ye comments ( comments engagement k baad k thy) to hamara jhagra hua bat ussky ghr tak puhanch g*i usski maan b safaian deny lag g*i to mn chup kr gya kio apna hi ghr hy, lekan jhagry k baad wo kehti hy tmny mujhy kho dia khud sy door kr dia ab mn ghussa krn ya bura bolon to Block krny tak aa jati hy. Jo mujh pe marti meri minnatain krti ab Block krny ki dhamki deti hy bat b buhot kam krti hy rat ki neend ab usski zarori ho g*i khair pehly b wo kehti k ghar waly nhi chor rhy mtlb bat buhot kam karti thi par piyar buhot krti har bat manti lekan ab bat b kam krti hy bat b nhi manti awr dhamkian b deti hy, Mazzy ki bat mujhy kai bar bol chuki k shadi kro jaldii. Lekan sath ajeeb behave hy ab usska bolti hy tm kuch nhi kr sakty hum fazool mn batain kr rhy ik dosry ka time zaya kr rhy.

Dono families yhi chahti hn k ye rishta ho jay Mangetor b yhi chahti hy shadi krny ka b bol rhi k shadi k baad tm set ho jao gy, sary khush hn par jb sy ye affair usska pata chla hy wo buhot badal g*i mery dil mn b ab wo jaga nhi usski. Buhot preshan rehta hu mn har waqt soch soch k job pe b dhehan nhi jata na neend aati hy essi affair ki soch pari rehti hy. Jesy mjhy shak ki koi beemari lg g*i ho.... Kio k mn buhot introvert hu kisi sy koi relation nhi rakha aj tak.

Hey Plz Hide my Identity Male 39 here being married since 12 years having 2 Kids i am currently leaving abroad my problem is that i tried many times to get second marriage but my wife does not agree despite that her family disease is Hempophailia a bleeding disorder where mother is the carrier and due to this my child is suffering from above mentioned disease the Doctor told us that to stop more childs as it might b effected too from same disease now someone plz suggest me that what should i do and how to convince my wife to let me allow for second marriage because i cant betray her.

expect useful suggestions and advice in this regards will be highly appreciated