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Very often during my coaching sessions I have come across my clients struggling with this aspect of ending a relationship (even toxic ones), and even after it is over, they blame themselves for not being able to hate or completely dislike the person who caused them pain.

So heres the secret - ITS OK.
When you share a relationship or bond with someone, be it romantic, friendship or any other form of relationship, it is rare that it will be 100% bad, if it was we probably wouldnt have put up with it. So the good memories or even the habit of liking them may keep some level of affinity alive for them. Because thats how your lovely heart is, it wasnt made to hate. It was made for love, but you have to love yourself first and thats where the boundary comes in. Its okay to have some fondness towards them in your heart still, but it’s IMPERATIVE to not have place in your life.