Parents Role In Raising Childrens

🇵🇰 Education in vs 🇬🇧 in the

A Deep Dive (Structure, Quality, Challenges & Opportunities)

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1. Overall Philosophy

Pakistan

Education focuses more on content memorization, exams, and textbook learning.

Purpose is seen as getting degrees and jobs, less on creativity and critical thinking (though this is improving).

UK

Strong emphasis on skills, problem-solving, creativity, discussions, and independent thinking.

Education aims to prepare students for real-world challenges, not just exams.

10 things a father must say to his son:

1. “Get back up”

• Let your son learn from his failures, but give him guidance when needed. “Fall down seven times, but get up eight.”

2. “I love you”

• Love the son you have, not the son you want. Fatherly love is unconditional.

3. “It’s okay to be angry, sad, or depressed. It’s NOT okay to stay angry, sad, or depressed.”

• To manage emotions, you must first be able to feel and experience them. A father needs to teach how to manage, understand, and regulate emotions.

4. “Treat your mother with Respect”

• A father needs to treat his wife with respect. No complaining, fighting, or disrespect. A boy learns how to treat women by how his father treats his wife.

5. “I don’t know everything”

• You will be your sons hero… But you don’t know everything. It’s important your son knows he can question authority, because the experts aren’t always right. It’s important to say sorry, and sometimes say you don’t know.

6. “In order to get what you want, you have to deserve what you want.”

• The world isn’t crazy enough to reward a bunch of undeserving people.

7. “You have what it takes. I believe in you.”

• You need to instil a healthy competitive nature, confidence, and self-reliance. A strong father will lay the foundation for self-esteem.

8. “I am proud of you and who you are becoming.”

• You are a hard worker and you’ll figure it out. Your actions will have consequences. You can be anything, but you can’t be everything.

9. “You can’t give what you don’t have.”

• Love. Loyalty. Empathy. Happiness. Show your son and lead by example.

10. “Be a gentleman and stand your ground.”

• Have a strong set of moral principles and do the right thing, even when everyone stands against you…

Protect your values, morals, and defend those who can’t defend themselves.

ABC's Of Successful Marriage...

A bsolutely adore each other.

B est friends.

C ompromise.

D iscover new things together.

E ncourage each other.

F orgive and forget.

G aze into each others eyes.

H old hands and hugs a lot.

I nspire and intrigue each other.

J oke and laugh and have fun.

K eep each other’s secrets.

L ove with all your hearts.

M arvel at each other's talents.

N uture each other's soul.

O vercome problem together.

P ray together.

Q uiet each other's fears.

R emember the little things.

S ay "I love you" everyday.

T ake time for tenderness.

U nderstand and care deeply.

V alue everything you share.

W ish each other even for little things.

X -press your true feelings.

Y earn for each other's touch.

Z zzzz in each other's arm.

May Allah SWT bless us all with a successful marriage Ameen.

The Best Wife ..

1. Listens to her husband and does her best to please him.

2. Always considers her husband's well being.

3. Does not give the husband stress but gives him peace of mind.

4. Does not spend more than her husband earns.

5. Helps her husband at the time of problems.

6. Has patience when the husband doesn't treat her justly.

7. Behaves and dresses modestly.

8. Learns and practises Islam and teaches her husband too.

9. Does her best to raise their children in an islamic way.