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Again & again ….
Only have children that you can afford !

Unconditional Love of a Parent - Breaking The Chains of Poverty

Remember your Children are not your Retirement Fund.
Be Financially Independent.. Do not RELY on your children.

Plan for your future and retirement and only have children that you can afford.

Your Children will help you if they really want to (unconditionally).
Do not pressure or give an obligation to your children a responsibility that you yourself are not able to establish.

Let your children have the life that they deserve and do not expect anything in return.

While our children can help us, it should be done voluntarily and not as an obligation. By then, our children will have their own families to look after. We owe it to ourselves to maintain our DIGNITY despite sickness and old age.

Remember
As children, you do it out of gratitude not obligation...
As parents, you receive with gratitude rather than entitlement...

Stop the cycle. Stop this toxic Filipino culture.

As Elon Musk said: “My children didn’t choose to be born, I chose to have children. They owe me nothing, I owe them everything.”

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