Instructor Ikang Akpan

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S*X IN ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP.

Indeed a very socially controversial subject. To arrive at a squared summary of this subject, there must be an accurate and a balanced definition of it. WHAT IS S*X and WHAT IS A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ? :

Actually, there exist a lot of ignorant, imposed or inherited distortions regarding virtually everything as far as the human family is concerned. These distorted perceptions and concepts were crafted by certain human beings for certain reasons at a certain time. Eventually however, because of how promising those crafted ideologies seems and also with the social influence controlled by some of its adherents, it has been spread far and have captivated many humans, encouraging them to be RELAXED.

These followers are hugely led by their emotions than by their reasoning. Whatever is essential for human beings would also be very clear to them despite who they individually are or where they come from; as long as they are naturally liable to use their thinking abilities.

* WHAT IS S*X ?
Just like hunger for food or being pressed of urine or f***s, s*x is one of the Essential Natural Impulses also in the nature of human beings, requiring gratification. It is a natural activity operated through the process of intimate pe*******on also called s*xual in*******se; between same or the opposite genders of human beings. The most formally accepted or official pattern of s*xual gratification is that carried out by the opposite genders of human beings - a male and a female. This however could be because it is only by that pattern that human beings can procreate.

Definitely, that natural ability is not possible in human beings only for the purpose of producing offsprings.

The pleasure in the act is also normal and different, with a special function to human beings. It is exactly as the Mouth which has two functions, that of Talking And Breathing. It is certainly not a coincidence but for a purpose.

*WHAT IS A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ?
A romantic relationship is the conscious union between two different persons of either the same or the opposite gender; - PROMISING MARRIAGE. Certainly such a union is specially established with equal awareness of eventual s*xual gratification.

However, regarding the Commencement Of The Practice in the union, it would be by the agreements setup by the persons involved. The practice can either strengthen or weaken the union depending on their individual motives and their shared agreements and also on their level of mental maturity as well as on their understanding of S*x As a Natural Activity.

Any natural activity that goes beyond the confinement of one person requires proper individual attention, respecting the other person involved.

S*x Must Not Be By Bully or By Accident but By Agreement And Consent of both persons involved. It should not solely be the core of such relationships.

S*x as a normal practice requires consideration, since it involves more than one person. IT IS VERY WISE NOT TO FORGET THAT RAISING OFFSPRINGS IS FUNDAMENTAL TO YOUR EXISTENCE; RECIPROCATE !!.

It is wise also not to forget that abilities and systems of every individual human being is different, therefore there exist potential unhealthy attractions through biologic contacts in the s*xual gratification process. Regarding that, the message is CAREFULNESS through Education.

S*x is naturally a Double-Endowed Stimulus. It has no natural prohibition but instructions; and in the human family also called the society, it is ONLY the ADULTS - as designated by the legal laws protecting human beings - that merits the trust of keeping those instructions aright. Because mishandling the act can be detrimental.

*** Know that every natural thing comes with a good and a bad-side, so whatever effect attracted from any natural activity depends on how it was used.

It Should Not Be Operated ILLICITLY, IGNORANTLY Or SELFISHLY; - neither S*x nor Romantic Relationship.

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A detailed, balanced and an unbiased article covering the entire subject is ready !!!

It shall be released this SUNDAY 4/2/24.

The subject matters a lot as most societally are guided by some one-sided principles and understanding about it.

It's societally friendly.

Be ready.