Miramon Ellis

If you want respect, protection and provision from men, then you should be showing them more respect.

Too often, women cling to their feminist friends, taking and giving terrible advice to each other, disrespecting men, living "their best life" (which is really a ratchet life), then when they need protection and resources, they turn directly to men--not their feminist friends.

If the women you associate with encourage you to live a certain lifestyle, then they should also have a safety net prepared for you once you hit rock bottom. They egg you on while you're downing men, so when men say they don't want to protect you because you have no respect for them, your feminist friends who encouraged you to be disrespectful need to step up and protect you.

If you are encouraged to be a w***e, then you get pregnant by a deadbeat, you shouldn't be looking for another man to help you take care of your child. Your feminist friends should help you take care of your child. They're the ones that told you it was cute to be a w***e. Do you see where I'm going with this? If someone is going to tell you to live a reckless life, they at least need to have some solutions for you when s**t don't go as planned.

You let these women hype you up and fill your head with nonsense, but when you need something SIGNIFICANT you have to turn to men. Sure, your feminist friends can transfer you 20k every so often. Sure, they can give you a pack of diapers at your 4th baby shower. But they cannot give you anything significant on a continuous basis. Men (the good ones) are responsible for their woman EVERY DAY. They protect her EVERY DAY. They make sure she has what she needs EVERY DAY.

So if you want that same thing, then you need to learn how to respect the people that provide that. Your feminist friends can't, and probably wouldn't even if they could. But they're too self absorbed to admit that they are not able to give you anything except rhetoric and minimal emotional support. I mean, emotional support is good, but most times they aren't providing you with enough of that either.

Female empowerment is about advancement. If you are being empowered to do something that doesn't advance you, then you need to turn your back on that type of empowerment. You're so busy trying to be free that you forgot you're supposed to be moving FORWARD. If you find yourself listening to women who can't get you from point A to point B, then I think it's time that you seek out women who can.💎

Miramon Ellis At Miramon Ellis, we motivate, strengthen and encourage you to becoming a better version of you.

I don't know who this is for but...... here's your word this afternoon......
I've never been at the same level in my life going into the next year... even the year we got married and was homeless, I ended with us having an apartment, few household items & a business with my company Longrich Bioscience etc..
If your life looks the same year after year & you're on the same level it's time to do something a bit differently...
Stop being comfortable with mediocrity, because it's a challenge to level up.
Accept the challenge.
Stop Making excuses!
Stop saying you're waiting on God when you know he's waiting on you! He's shown you every sign & you turn away from them.
& stop saying it's not about making money, if it is!! I bet if I cut you a check for N2,000,000.00 right now it'll solve 80% of your problems! (For many people not all)...
& stop hanging around "still" people when you're trying to level up! You know the ones who are STILL broke, STILL complaining, STILL borrowing, STILL making excuses, STILL hating , STILL telling people to be humble as a defense mechanism for what they lack , STILL in the same place they were in 3 years ago....
Let them GO!! I don't permit that in my circle... why?
Because, someone who has nothing to lose will help you lose everything!

Happy Sunday Loves!