Peer Educators Campaign Group - PECG

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1. Non-contact: This could come in form of “s*xy talk” or exposure.

2.Sexual contact: This include any touching of the intimate body part of the victim or causing both of them to engage in mutual fondling or ma********on or outright s*xual in*******se.

3. In**st: Sexual activities which take place between two blood relation.

4. R**e: Sexual in*******se that take place as a result of force or threats of force rather than consent.

5. Sexual harassment: Refer to deliberate verbal comments about s*x which the receiver finds annoying and offensive.

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NEGOTIATION

Is a discussion aimed at arriving at a peaceful agreement. people need to negotiate in many situation e.g dealing with peer pressure, participating in team game, when going on a date, when making s*xual decision e.t.c
Negotiation is a way of getting one’s needs met without using guilt, anger or intimidation, it requires giving and taking on the part of both parties.

SITUATIONS THAT MAY NEED NEGOTIATION

1. To have or not to have s*xual in*******se.
2. Use of alcohol/drug.
3. Use of contraceptives.
4. Types of parties to attend.
5. Types of dress to wear.
6. Where to go on a date
7. Sports to participate in.
8. School society/club to join.

Different forms of s*xual violence
1. Non-contact: This could come in form of “s*xy talk” or exposure.
2.Sexual contact: This include any touching of the intimate body part of the victim or causing both of them to engage in mutual fondling or ma********on or outright s*xual in*******se.
3. In**st: Sexual activities which take place between two blood relation.
4. R**e: Sexual in*******se that take place as a result of force or threats of force rather than consent.
5. Sexual harassment: Refer to deliberate verbal comments about s*x which the receiver finds annoying and offensive.

DATING
Is a process whereby two lovers go out to special place to keep each others company to know each other better.

REASON WHY YOUNG PEOPLE DATE
1. Establishing friendship
2. Companionship
3. Sharing experiences
4. Getting to understand each other
5. Learning about new things
6. Sharing recreational activities
7. Socializing and developing communication skills

POSSIBLE PLACES WHERE YOU YOUNG PEOPLE DATE
1. School functions
2. Playground
3. Homes
4. Social outings
5. Recreational centers
6. Beach
7. Amusement Packs

APPROPRIATE BEHAVIORS FOR DATING
1. Set limits
2. Good communication skills
3. Respect your partner’s value
4. Avoid alcohol and drugs
5. Avoid po*******hy and s*x films
6. Avoid night parties without being escorted by an adult friend
7. Dress modestly
8. Appropriate non verbal message
9. Being assertive
10. Find out your partner’s limits are
11. Discuss and agree on where you will go on a date
12. Do not guess what your partner wants, ask him/her