Eliezer Project

NO S*X PLEASE...

S*x to a man is more than physical pleasure. S*x is conquest, it is an achievement of a sort; it is the affirmation of manhood. This may sound st√pid and senseless to a woman but to a man it is not.

Withholding s*x from a man makes you mysterious and strangely attractive. A man likes to overcome a challenge and CONQUER.

Having s*x with you is conquering you. If he does so before marriage, he loses the passion to pursue and chase you further because you do not give him anymore challenge. If you pressure him and he continues with the relationship he does so with less enthusiasm and respect for you.

Delaying s*x till marriage has its numerous benefits. Apart from avoiding unwanted pregnancy and AIDS, you develop a very healthy self esteem. Your face glows with pride and you help your man develop SELF CONTROL.

Women who give men s*x in courtship do not know they are helping their men commit adultery in marriage. You have trained him to always get s*x improperly at the wrong time because you feel he cannot hold it so when you marry and are heavily pregnant or just deliver your baby please don't be angry if hubby runs after a mistress or caught making out with the maid.

The best place to be "conquered" is in marriage. Saving s*x till the wedding night makes the man sees you as a highly valuable jewel worth having. I'm not just referring to virgins. Even if you 've had a terrible past, abortions or a child out of wedlock. FORGET THE PAST and save s*x for the wedding night.

Let the man know the past was a mistake but now you know better. You are not going to CHEAPEN yourself before any man anymore. If he accepts it fine, if not he is free to go. You are not a s*xual machine. Any man who will marry you must accept your person not just your private part. You are not a s*x toy. You are a woman he needs to appreciate, love and value.

When you give your man s*x on the wedding night, he has "conquered" you and there is a look of pride in his eyes. That pride spread over to you and the result is a loving, trusting, peaceful and blissful marriage. You are happy that your man owns you completely and he is happy to be the one in charge of you. This is very crucial and basic in marriage. It is the foundation for trust, faithfulness and commitment for life.

Learn to control your s*xual urge and teach your man to control his as well. There is time for everything under the sun. God bless you. Cheers!

Courtesy: Seun Oladele

FUNNY QUESTIONS IN COURTSHIP...

Singles rarely ask me:

"Ma, is it okay to invest in profitable business in courtship?" No! Most dont ask!

"Is it okay to buy life changing books for my partner?" Mba! Most of them never asked me.

"Is it okay to fast and pray together in courtship?" I can't remember one single soul mentioning fasting! I remember one asked about praying together, fasting? Nay! Their belly has been demonized from fasting!

"Is it okay to kiss in courtship?" I hear that st√pid question all the time.

"Can we romance and fo**le in courtship?" Why not ask me straight if you should be having s*x?

After wasting all precious time and energy £ating each other's lips and pressing br£asts, you now remember your mates are ruling the world. Investing in their career, businesses, spiritual lives, future, vision and destiny!

They are becoming great leaders few years after marriage, 20 years down the line you are still struggling because you didn't plan for it.

You were kissing and romancing while your fellow courters are building their future!

You will now come with self pity crying all fingers are not equal because the ten fingers you ought to use to work, romancing has stolen them!

Wake up youths! Time awaits no one!

If you must be great in life and marriage, you must consciously plan it!

No one succeeds by accident!

What you don't plan for, you won't achieve!

The success in marriage, career, business and spiritual life you don't plan for won't happen!

Fornication: kissing, romancing and having s*x in courtship is a time and destiny k1ller! Avoid it at all cost!

Spend time praying together, studying the word of God, reading books, learning, growing, planning extensively on how to build your career, invest in profitable businesses, build your own house, buy your car, start or grow your ministry, be rich, wealthy, super successful and great. That is what courtship is about, do you hear me?

No one should ask me again if it is okay to kiss in courtship!

Leave kissing alone and face your courtship, you hear? Do you hear me?

Thank you.

Courtesy: Seun Oladele 2022; reposted, 2025