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What did they say again about Igbo ladies? Especially “Umuada”

Check out photos from Paul Okoye and Ivy's traditional marriage ceremony!

Congratulations to them and both families ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Hello, thank you for your support.

Please keep my identity hidden as I share this sensitive issue.

I'm currently in a dilemma with two men in my life.

My present boyfriend, Mr. A, is nice, loving, and caring, but we lack understanding and connection. Despite this, I've stayed in the relationship hoping things would improve.

On the other hand, I recently met Mr. B, who is equally caring, loving, and supportive. He makes me feel special, believes in my dreams, and invests in me without conditions.

Unlike Mr. A, who only invests with strings attached. Mr. B encourages me to try again when I fail, and his patience and belief in me are remarkable.

However, my family already knows Mr. A, and he plans to marry me soon. Mr. B, who is younger than me, also intends to marry me, but my family might object due to their prior relationship with Mr. A.

Both men love me, but Mr. B resonates with my spirit, worships me, and is patient. I'm torn between the two. Please advise on what to do."