S. Royal Institute

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐔𝐏𝐄𝐑 𝐌𝐎𝐌

In the heart of every supermom lies an extraordinary ability to balance the demands of life. She navigates her career with determination, excelling in her professional life while remaining the pillar of her home. Her faith is her anchor, providing strength and guidance as she nurtures her family with love and wisdom. Despite the challenges, she finds time for everyone, ensuring that no one is left behind. Her secret? Her submission to God, An unwavering belief in herself and the power of love. She is the epitome of grace under pressure, embodying the true essence of a modern-day superhero.

Thank you hubby for bringing this topic to mind some days back.

Efe was a 25 years old Edo lady, full of life and beauty both inside and outside, she sells Akara in Oshodi market in Lagos. Efe has Eight female and two male staffs who works at her two in one shop. She is very kind and down to earth. Her workers treat her like a queen, even though she is older than some of them.

It all started in her second year in school when she has to drop out of school because of her parents sudden death. She struggled to move to third year but it wasn't easy. So many people tried to make her compromise her principles and faith but Efe knowing the foundation her parents has laid for her and her younger brother, refused to be a pone in the hands of the devil.

Efe dropped out of school so that she can take good care of her brother. All she now care for is how they can feed, after seeing how her uncles and aunts abandoned them and care less about their situation. Efe decided to take responsibility for herself and her brother. She sold all that was in the house her parents rented remaining bed and some cooking items. After few days of search she got a small room that pays less to live in with her brother. From what she sold she was able to also start an Akara business with her brother assisting her in attending to customers.

After some months, she sent her brother back to school and decided to manage with the business but only to discover that she couldn't handle the customers alone, so she employed a helping hand. Two months later Efe decided to add pap, pan cake, corn cake to her Akara business, and with the help of her male friend who advice her to get a shop and add packaging, she was able to win more customers.
Efe now controls customers as if she charmed them or added something special to the food but no, it was her unique smile and customer relationship skill that drew them. She was not just hard working but also compassionate and full of empathy.

A year has gone by and Efe can now sit in her small Executive chair in her shop and control her finance while her workers do every other thing. One day, her brother called her and said Sis. you need to go back to school. How long will you keep staying at the shop. I am done with my Secondary school let my handle the shop while you go to school, after all you are a woman. So, she accepted to go back to school but the brother will have to take jamb and join her after a year. They got one of the staffs whom the trusted to handle the finance while they employed another person to replace him.

Glory to God, Efe has graduated with a first class in business Administration and her brother medicine and Surgery, Efe decided to run her masters immediately. When she got home after her last project, she got a call to come to an eatery, she went because the call was from her brother. When Efe stepped in, what she saw shocked her. Her financial secretary who happened to be her male friend that advice her to add packaging to the food, happened to be a graduate of finance. He got a job in United States after they graduated. He was back but this time to marry Efe.

It was a beautiful sight to behold, all the decorations, music and people. Efe who knows how the young man has sacrificed 5 years working for them despite being a graduate was filled with emotions but that was not a reason it say Yes to the proposal. So at that point she closed her eyes, counted to ten and while communing with God, Opened her mouth and said Yes. Everybody was already expecting a no because of how she was shaking her head. Then the biggest surprise shocked Efe to the bone marrow when she was told by her soon to be husband that He has bought that eatery for her and has put in everything she needs. Efe couldn't hold her tears, she cried like a baby. Can life be so beautiful. Remembering how she sold akara and at a point hawked it whenever it was remaining before she started having customers. Hmmmm what a strange world.

Beloved, you don't have parents, or your parents are poor is not an excuse to become backward in life. Poverty, Death, born out of wedlock or any situation doesn't define who you will become. You are solely responsible for who you become in life. God has a purpose for everyone of us and its for glory to glory but who determines the fulfilment of that glory is no other person than you.

God is the God of intimacy, how much more His institution called Marriage.

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