PeeandDee

We were taught that love is enough.
Real life taught us otherwise.
Marriage needs love, yes—but also patience on hard days, honest conversations, forgiveness after hurt, teamwork during pressure, and growth through change.
Love is the foundation, but intentional effort is the structure.
Marriage is not sustained by feelings alone, but by daily choices.

On the wings of Love, together we choose to stay forever...💞💞

You see this girl eh
My side chick
Even her mama nor fit jealous her
Everyday, as she wakes up like this from the bed
She dey give us joy
And from that moment onwards
Her trouble don start

To clean her mouth na gbogodo gbagada
To administer her drugs
(Cold liver oil, Abideck etc)
Na war
Na me and her mama know this one
To bath her na another hustle bustle
From using her leg to slap the water in the bowl
Scattering it everywhere on the floor
To using her hands to slap the same water
Which make everywhere full

To feeding her her food
To telling her to open her mouth
To petting her to swallow it

To dressing her up
To the most crazy part
(Combing her hair)

Nna eh!
Nor be small thing
We dey face everyday
Cos her wahala too much

But all the same
HER WAHALA NA GOOD WAHALA
We love am like that
Everyday, everywhere, everything, every time
😘🥰😊💋💕

Are We Raising Leaders or a Lost Generation?”

As a teacher, I can’t help but wonder—where did we get it so wrong?
This generation—our Gen Z—has shown a level of ill-mannerism, disrespect, and disregard that is alarming. Many students today have no iota of respect for their teachers, and sadly, we see this reflected in the steady decline of academic excellence and moral values.
Is it the internet? Social media? The embrace of Western cultures? All of these surely play a part.
But let’s be honest—something deeper is missing. We lost our sense of community.
There was a time when it took a village to raise a child. Back then, your neighbor’s mother could correct your child, and children grew up learning not just from their immediate family but from the community at large.
Today?
We all want to raise our kids alone—forgetting that we’re not really alone. The internet, peers, and influencers are helping raise them too (and not always for the better).
A neighbor sees your child misbehaving and looks away: “What’s my business?”
Teachers in private schools dare not raise their voices—they might be reprimanded for “yelling.”
Parents, exhausted after long work hours, opt for gentle parenting even in moments that call for firm correction.
But I ask:
Is the world truly becoming gentler?
Or are we raising a generation too fragile to handle life’s realities?
Remember: These children are our future. What we tolerate in them today is what will define our society tomorrow.
So I ask you—what kind of future are we really preparing for?
🔖

You see this girl eh
She be case
When she dey with me
Her body dey calm

But when she sees her mama
She start to shake
Like ewe Jobele
She nor even care if her mama don tire
Na to dey find wetin nor lose up and down

Come dey take side eye look me

Shey na becos say I nor get bwess to give her ni
Abi wetin???

Anyways, these are my two private lovelies
I can never trade for anything in the world
I loooor
Love you twos
Muah 💋 😘

Dear Working Wife, You Are Stronger Than You Think! 💪
To Every Working Wife… You Are Doing Amazing! 🌸

Let’s be real—nobody truly educates us on how to combine the complex roles of being a wife and building a career.
If we’re honest with ourselves, every working wife has, at some point, felt like the weight of these responsibilities is just too much.
You get home after a long day at work, exhausted, only to realize there’s nothing for dinner. You drag yourself to the kitchen, cook something up, and just when you’re about to relax… Oga finishes eating and is already asking for “the other food”. 🥴
Be honest—how many of us have secretly thought, “In my next life, please let me come as a man” or even had some wilder thoughts? 😂 Sis, don’t feel guilty. You’re not alone. We’ve all been there.
But here’s the truth: God has given us these great responsibilities because He designed us strong enough to handle them. 💪💖
I remember when I was still single—I used to think full-time housewives were lazy. 🙈 But now? I realize every woman must choose what works best for her home. Whether you’re a stay-at-home wife or a working wife, the ultimate goal is the same: to run your home with love, excellence, and peace.
If you’ve chosen to work—or circumstances give you no other choice—remember that God’s grace is sufficient for you.
The Proverbs 31 woman shows us that it is possible to do both and do them well:
“She rises while it is still night, provides food for her household, considers a field and buys it, with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard… her lamp does not go out at night.” (Proverbs 31:15-18)
She was a wife, a mother, a businesswoman, and a homemaker—and she excelled because she relied on God’s strength. ✨
So as we reflect this weekend, here’s my word for you:
🌸 Celebrate yourself.
🌸 Encourage yourself.
🌸 Remind yourself of the special assignment God has placed in your hands.

You are doing better than you think. 💖You are a Proverbs 31 woman in action—strong, resourceful, and anointed for this season. 👑
🌟 Tag a working wife to remind her how amazing she is! Let’s lift each other up.
゚viralシ

Dear Young Lady: Preparing to Be a Wife Is More Important Than Preparing for a Wedding
After finding “Mr. Right,” many young women get carried away with the glamour of wedding preparations—the dress, the flowers, the aso-ebi, the pictures e.t.c.and forget to prepare for the real journey: becoming a WIFE.
We spend so much time planning for the wedding day, but rarely sit down to reflect on what marriage truly entails.
The truth? A lot will change as you transition from being a single lady to a wife. And these changes require wisdom, maturity, and intentional preparation.
Here are some areas where life will change when you become “Mrs”: 1. Your priorities will shift
You’re no longer living only for yourself. You’ll now share your time, plans, and even emotions with someone else.
2. You’ll carry more responsibilities
A peaceful and loving home doesn’t happen by chance—it’s built daily through patience, sacrifice, and understanding.
3. Communication becomes a lifeline
You’ll need to listen more, speak with kindness, and sometimes choose peace over being “right.”
4. Serving your home and spouse
Whether it’s meal planning, finances, or emotional support, your role will expand.
5. Your relationship with God matters more than ever
Marriage will test and grow your faith. Stay anchored in prayer, because you’ll need grace daily.
A good, peaceful, and loving home is not magic—it’s the work of a prepared woman.
So dear sister, while you’re picking out wedding colors and bridesmaids’ dresses, take time to prepare your heart and mind for the beautiful but demanding journey of marriage.
What lessons are you learning as you prepare for marriage (or wish you knew earlier)? Share in the comments.