IT'S MY Choice

You can’t be a “hardworking” spouse and ignore s*xual intimacy.

Late Marriage is better than wrong Marriage. Nobody has ever died for Marrying LATE but people d!es for Marrying WRONGLY.

Be wise and ponder over this....

SIGNS/PROVES THAT SHOWS YOUR MARRIAGE IS IN TROUBLE

Before any marriage comes to an end or crashes, there are signs that pops up, but unfortunately couples most times ignore these sign and hope that things will fall into place on its own. The bitter truth is that when you ignore these signs you are creating room for Loneliness, separation, and ultimately divorce.

1. NOT EATING TOGETHER: Eating together creats more bond in marriage. Infact it is one of the vital vitamins in marriage.
2. ADDICTION: When one partner gets addicted to something and refuses to get help. This addiction could be inform of drugs, gambling, drinking or po*******hy. Most times the addicted partner may be crying for help but their partner don't give a damn.
3. WHEN THE ONLY REASON THEY ARE STILL IN THE MARRIAGE IS BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN: So many couples are in their marriages just for the sake of the kids. This is absolutely wrong because both partner were there before the children came. Children shouldn't bring disconnection between you and your partner.
4. WHEN THE ONLY THING THAT COMES TO YOUR MIND IS DIVORCE OR SEPARATION: There is a saying That "you are what you think". You can't think negatively and expect a positive outcome of your life. Your thoughts reflects in your actions, thereby having great effect on the people you relate with. When you keep entertaining divorce thoughts in your mind, one day it will explode and you will end up hurting your partner.
5. WHEN PARTNERS DON'T FIND JOY COMING BACK HOME: When your partner finds joy outside your home than he/she finds when they are at home, then there is trouble. Some partners come back home late after work just to ease off the presence of their partner. You should find great joy and burning desire when you remember that you are coming home after work to see your partner.
6. WHEN HAVING S*X IS ONLY WHEN YOU ARE DESIRING CHILDREN: S*x is sweet in marriage. In as much as s*x is for procreation, s*x is also for pleasure and for easing off stress. Unfortunately many people see s*x as stressful, use it as weapon against their partner, or only want s*x when they feel like procreating. S*x brings more bond in marriage. S*x is a force that binds the spirit, soul and body of couples together.
7. LACK OF FUN/PLAY: When you no longer play, gist or have fun together as partners it shows there's problem somewhere. You should creat out time to crack jokes, play, laugh and smile at eachother's jokes. This creats more bond between the two of you.

I pray for every ailing marriage today that you find your mojo back and have a blissful union.
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