Ricky Goodall

Some men think that if they make enough money, get in good enough shape, own enough stuff or achieve enough success, that they will win the security of their woman.

This is not the case.

The feminine is like the weather. Some days she's sunny with blue skies, other days she's a vicious storm ready to tear the world apart.

The truth is, the masculine is never safe.

No matter how much money he makes, no matter how much stuff he owns, no matter how good he looks or how much success he achieves, he is never safe.

Because these are not the things that she seeks.

She desires a mountain to stay strong during her stormy times.

She desires a rock that won't break under the pressures of life's inevitable changes.

She desires a warrior who can stand the test of time, tame her when she's wild, and calm her when she's out of sorts.

She's not looking for another monkey to dance for her, or another worker bee to seek her validation endlessly.

She's looking for a king to serve and a leader to follow.

She doesn't seek security through money, she seeks security through integrity, and she will sacrifice any man in her way of achieving this.

No, brothers, we are never safe, at least not if we seek our safety from her. That's our job.

Until we develop true safety within, as a manifestation of our honesty, authenticity and integrity in life, we will never be safe.

Kabbalists say that just scanning the Zohar can lead to miracles, and when we read it out loud at the same time, our words become reality.

This is a portion of the Zohar called Beshalach, which talks about how to bring miracles into our reality.

Do you believe in miracles?