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Dating With Purpose

When it comes to dating, it's essential to approach relationships in a way that honors God, reflects His love, and promotes emotional and spiritual growth. Dating isn’t just about finding someone to fill a role in your life; it’s about building a foundation that leads toward a healthy, Christ-centered partnership.

Psychology teaches us that healthy relationships are rooted in mutual respect, understanding, and communication, but as believers, we add an additional layer by seeking to honor God in everything we do.

Dating should never be seen as just a casual or superficial endeavor. Instead, it’s an opportunity to get to know someone with the intention of potentially building a lifelong partnership. Proverbs 19:14 says, “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.” This verse reminds us that God is deeply involved in the process of relationships, and He desires that our dating experiences lead us toward something meaningful and lasting.
Dating with the purpose of marriage means seeking someone who shares your faith and values and who will walk alongside you in your journey to grow closer to God.

From a psychological standpoint, dating should focus on developing a deep connection, understanding, and trust. This happens best when both individuals are emotionally healthy and have a strong sense of identity.

Before you date someone, it’s important to be grounded in who you are, confident in your relationship with God, and secure in your self-worth. If you’re not emotionally whole, it can be easy to rely on a partner to fill gaps in your identity, leading to unhealthy attachment or dependence. But when you are secure in God’s love for you, you’re free to enter into a relationship based on mutual respect and shared faith.

SIX RULES FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Relationship Talks For Both Married And Singles With Mayowa Joseph

1. Don't take off YOUR PANTIES because he called You Beautiful. Take Them off because He MARRIED YOU.

2. Don't Open Your LEGS because he said You will Make A GOOD MOTHER. Open them because he's Ready to be A GOOD FATHER AFTER Your Wedding.

3. Don't Take Him HOME because he Gave You A Ride or Bought You Ice CREAM and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is Committed to be the Love of YOUR LIFE.

4. Don't PUSH Him away because He has No MONEY TODAY. Hold Him Close if He is A Man of Vision. To another Woman, He is HONEY and He's Got BRIGHTER Days ahead with A PROSPECTIVE BLOSSOMING FUTURE.

5. Don't Go Punishing Him because ANOTHER MAN Hurt You. All Men are not the Same. A Man who FEARS God doesn't Hurt People. If He Loves You, Give Him a Chance and He may be the best thing that ever Happened to you.

6. Don't Stay up All Night Praying and Wondering Where to Find a Good Man. Work on YOUR CHARACTER, be an ASSET and not A LIABILITY and above all serve God FAITHFULLY.

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11 Roles Of A Wife To Her Husband

There are certain roles which wives play in the lives of their husbands which is not known to most men. Check these out one after the other so as to appreciate your wife.

1. Lover: Your wife is a lover; not just a wife, express your love to her. Love her with all your heart; let anybody that cares to listen know.

2. Friend: Your wife is your friend, confide in her, nurture her, rejoice with her, mourn with her, celebrate her and mostly, laugh with her. 11 Roles Of A Wife To Her Husband

3. Baby: Treat her like a baby. Pamper her, carry her, nurture her, nourish her, cherish her and feed her. Let her sleep on your bosom, cuddle her and let her feel comfortable with you. 11 Roles Of A Wife To Her Husband

4. Room Mate: Stay in the same room with her, what God has joined together, let no room put asunder.

5. Bed Mate: Do not just stay in the same room with her, sleep on the same bed, make her your bed mate.

6. Soul Mate: Your wife is not just a friend; she is your soul mate. Do not just join your hand with her, give her your mind, do not hide anything from her. Rejoice with this beautiful queen that is your wife.

7. S*x Partner: Your wife is your s*x partner; do not be ashamed of making love with her. Strip yourself naked, enjoy yourself, make sure she enjoys it too. Do not be selfish, look at her face, and check whether she enjoys it. Never go to bed with any other lady, it is a sin.

8. Your Queen: Treat your wife like a queen which she is; if you do, she will treat you as a king. If you are a king, treat her with respect, talk to her with honour, let marriage be honorable.

9. Your First Lady: Your wife should be your first lady, the number one woman in your life. Never allow any other woman, your mother, sisters, secretary or colleagues take her position in your life.

10. Mother: Let your wife take the position of your mother in your life. Transfer the love of your mother to her. It will be foolish of you to still be confiding in your mother at your age, do not be foolish confide in your wife.

11. Your Student: Teach your wife what you want her to do. Do not be annoyed with her; let her keep on learning from you, you are her number one teacher.

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus names

D. Henry Fahnbulleh