AMIT K. MITRA

Continuing from where we left off, these days, people are so conditioned to look for happiness that they give up at the first sign something won’t be fun. They feel entitled to love every second of their job, and if they’re slapped in the face with something unpleasant, they pick up their bags and go home, or crib and remain, unhappy and frustrated. This seems a bit childish, but analyse and find that this is majorly true.
In our relentless pursuit to be happy and love what we do, we follow the advice of coaches and therapists who make big money by asking their clients this question: "What is your passion?"
The truth is this: Passion is the easy question. Let us admit, we can all find things that we love to engage in.
True transformation coaches will set you up to answer "What can you do with your life that is important?"
We need to find our “why.” When we know what we can do with our life that is important, we’ve found our purpose. When we lack direction in our life, it’s usually because we either don’t know what our values are or what we hold as our values are crappy ones. Unaware of our true values, we have ended up adopting ones held by other people and pretending they’re your own.
The result – you have ended up living a pathetic imitation of someone else because you have no clue of your “why.”
Passion and Purpose married is the life each is meant to live. It is the key to happiness within. Align your work with your deepest values. Values are the things you take with you, wherever you go. They’re not things you can buy, rent or trade in for the latest model or find out in social media, DIY, motivational speeches, laws or any else.

Whenever we find all reasons external as the cause of our problems, we are pointing outwards or "finger pointing". Everything happens because of causes external to self. It is comforting as we then remain "safe" within us.
What we fail to realise is that, with every such external reason, every such "comforting" thought, we are dis-empowering our own self. As we continue to tread down this path of "externalising" all problems with our lives, we gradually bring ourselves down to a state of mental wretchedness, weak and victimised.
It is only when we start to look inward, we embark on the path of taking responsibility. Responsibility for our thoughts, our actions and the way we lead our lives. And, we assume control of our world.
We start to live our life, our way to our dreams to our fulfilment.
Transformation coaches guide you to turn inward and you start to release your shackles of bo***ge as victims.

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