Dimensions Centre for Child Development

🛑 Pause. Let’s rethink this.

When a child feels safe, regulated, and understood, they naturally begin to engage… connect… and communicate.

And yes - sometimes,
👀 eye contact follows.

But when we demand eye contact, we may be:
– Increasing anxiety
– Reducing authentic communication
– Teaching performance, not connection

Research around the eye avoidance and camouflaging in autism suggests that many autistic individuals may avoid eye contact due to neural processing differences or sensory overload.

👉 So what should we focus on instead?

✨ Shared moments
✨ Joyful interactions
✨ Regulation
✨ Following the child’s lead
✨ Building relatedness

Because at the end of the day, 🗣️ Communication matters more than eye contact

📚 Want to go deeper? Read these articles 👇
• Stuart et al., 2022 – Eye gaze & neural evidence
• Cook et al., 2021 – Camouflaging in autism

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