IChing TLV

People rarely come to an I Ching consultation because life feels simple and clear. Usually they come when something inside them has become difficult to ignore. They may be carrying confusion, emotional fatigue, indecision, grief, frustration, or the quiet feeling that they’ve outgrown a situation but don’t yet know what comes next.

Before the session, many people are caught in loops of thought. They’ve replayed conversations, weighed options, imagined outcomes, and still feel no closer to peace. There is often a deeper need beneath the surface question: not just “What should I do?” but “What is really happening to me?”

As the consultation begins, the energy tends to change. Naming the question out loud creates space. What felt tangled starts to loosen. The mind becomes less noisy. There is room again to listen.

When we move into the reading, people often recognize themselves in what appears. The symbols, patterns, and guidance can bring surprising precision. It is not uncommon for someone to feel both seen and relieved at the same time. Sometimes there is emotion, sometimes laughter, sometimes silence, because something true has landed.

What changes during the session is not only perspective. It is the relationship they have with their own inner world. Fear softens. Urgency slows. What seemed impossible becomes workable. What seemed chaotic begins to reveal its order.

Afterward, most people do not leave with the feeling that someone else has given them an answer. They leave feeling more connected to their own clarity. They understand the season they are in. They can sense what is aligned, what is exhausted, and what now asks to be chosen.

The external circumstances may still need time to unfold, but inwardly something has already shifted. They are no longer trapped inside the confusion. They are back in conversation with themselves.

Private consultations available.

What the I Ching is not:

It is not fatalistic fortune-telling.
It does not hand your power away.
It is not superstition dressed as wisdom.
It is not here to flatter the ego.

The I Ching does not tell you what must happen.

It helps reveal what is already moving beneath the surface.

It reflects patterns.
It clarifies timing.
It exposes resistance.
It invites wiser choices.

Sometimes the answer comforts you.
Sometimes it challenges you.
Sometimes it asks for patience.

Its role is not to please.
Its role is to illuminate.

For those willing to listen, it becomes less an oracle… and more a mirror.

Private consultations available.

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The psychological process during an I Ching consultation

There’s something really interesting coming up in the community.

Elwin will share how he approaches certain I Ching readings that don’t feel “just personal” where patterns seem to repeat and point to something deeper.

A different way of looking at the hexagram, more layered, more nuanced… without losing the simplicity of the practice.

I love this kind of angle; it expands your reading without overloading it.

If you’re already a bit familiar with the I Ching, you’re going to enjoy this a lot.

🗓 April 9 at 7:30 (GMT+2 - Holland time)

Comment JOIN and I’ll send you the link.

Lately it’s felt like running a marathon with no finish line.

At some point I just felt… exhausted.
A bit disconnected. Like part of me was there, and part of me wasn’t anymore.

So I asked the I Ching:
how can I better deal with this exhaustion?

The answer didn’t fix anything externally.
But it helped me see what actually matters right now.

→ one person can be enough to feel anchored
→ small moments with my kids are enough (even if I don’t do it perfectly)
→ and I don’t need to push through when I’m depleted

There’s something very simple in that.
And also very relieving.

That’s what I love about the I Ching:
it doesn’t try to control the situation, it brings you back to what you can hold.

❤️